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A set of Scrabble tiles spell out GAME ON
First Person

I Beat My Girlfriend at Scrabble and We Never Played Again

Scrabble has always been an exciting way to show that my English degree might have meant something.

Julie Gentile May 27, 2022 1 Comment
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Well, Today Ellen Said Goodbye

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Carmen Phillips May 26, 2022 4 Comments
UVALDE, TEXAS - MAY 26: A memorial is seen surrounding the Robb Elementary School sign following the mass shooting at Robb Elementary School on May 26, 2022 in Uvalde, Texas. According to reports, 19 students and 2 adults were killed, with the gunman fatally shot by law enforcement. (Photo by Brandon Bell/Getty Images)
Parenting & Family School

“I’m Angry and Sad and Scared and I Know Nothing is Going to Change”

We invited the parents and educators on our team to share how they’re feeling in the aftermath of the horrifying school shooting of 19 children and two teachers in Uvalde, Texas.

the team May 26, 2022 24 Comments
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AF+ Love + Sex

Intimate Geographies: The Ecstasy of Filth

No one had ever made me feel small before, but Alice was six-two and could lift me like I was a potted plant.

Dust May 26, 2022 4 Comments
in this collage piece, two fat, Black femmes post behind a foregrond of collaged foliage and in front of a background of shimmering and textured blue colors. The person on the left has her hair in a protective style and is wearing a green top with cut-outs, and posing with her arms above her head. In the background, a femme with long loose hair poses with her hand on her hip, wearing a satiny, black two-piece outfit.
AF+

Editor’s Notes: On the Fat Femme Fashion Series

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danijanae May 26, 2022 3 Comments
A fat femme in a sheer piece with blonde hair stands smiling with deep colored circles in the background. Queerness through Style
Style

Fat Femmes On How They Show Their Queerness Through Fashion

10 years ago I looked in the mirror and was scared I looked straight. Now I can’t see anything besides a very slutty dyke.

danijanae, Valerie Anne and Vanessa
May 26, 2022 18 Comments
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First Person

Measuring My Queerness By Different Therapists I’ve Had

If I had a dollar for every therapist I’ve had, I’d probably have enough money to buy a relatively decent meal at a nearby bodega.

Lily Alvarado May 26, 2022 8 Comments
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Pride is around the corner, and you want to look as gay as possible.

viv May 25, 2022 3 Comments
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Sex Toys

I Tried Foria’s CBD Intimacy Melts and Achieved My Size Queen Dreams

The thought of a suppository didn’t exactly set my vulva ablaze, but I decided to keep an open mind and an open vagina.

Guest May 25, 2022 6 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Seriously Who Are We Supposed to Ship Valkyrie With?!

Big questions from the Thor: Love & Thunder trailer; another day, another anti-trans Netflix special; what Kate McKinnon gave to SNL; and more.

Heather Hogan May 25, 2022 10 Comments
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Sports

Cherelle Griner, Wife of Brittney Griner, Opens Up to Robin Roberts About BG’s Russian Detainment

“I won’t go down until she’s back,” Cherelle said. “Every single day matters for me to be sound, for me to be alert, for me to be attentive, to make sure that she comes back.” 

Heather Hogan May 25, 2022 4 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Intimate Geographies: An Old-Fashioned Lesbian Melodrama

This is a story where I’m not the protagonist.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 25, 2022 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: This Thirsty Reel of Ashlyn Harris Is Incredibly Effective!

Also, ahem, did my invitation to the “Hacks” pool party get lost in the mail??????????????

Christina Tucker May 25, 2022
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AF+

The Autostraddle Team Maysturbation Survey Results Are In!

Our favorite fantasies, how often we masturbate, unexpected items we do the job with, and more!

Nico May 25, 2022 2 Comments
A school sign for Robb Elementary Schools is brick and says Bienvenidos in white cursive. In front of the sign is a Texas sheriff with his back to the camera, out of focus.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: They’re Children.

Thinking of Uvalde, Texas tonight. There are no words.

Carmen Phillips May 24, 2022 11 Comments
Anne Lister reads Ann Walker a letter in bed
TV Show Recaps

“Gentleman Jack” Inches Closer to the Great Cheater Reckoning!

It’s time to eat the rich!

Heather Hogan May 24, 2022 4 Comments
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TV Reviews

“The Circle” Is Here With Bisexual Chaos — and Spice Girls!

I’m a little embarrassed to admit that I knew next to nothing about the Spice Girls before this season of The Circle, but I can now confidently say that I would die for Mel B.

the team May 24, 2022 2 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Intimate Geographies: I Didn’t Think I Deserved To Be Topped, I Was Very Wrong

Over and over, the universe has instructed me: ask for what you want. Over and over, I’ve refused.

Abbie Jones May 24, 2022 17 Comments
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Identity

You Need Help: Will I Ever Feel Comfortable in My Own Skin?

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Darcy May 24, 2022 13 Comments
Solo Dance by Li Kotomi, translated by Arthur Reiji Morris
LGBT Book Reviews

Li Kotomi’s “Solo Dance” Is Haunted by Death and Literature

Solo Dance has no illusions that in the present day, the implicit and explicit violence of homophobia still leaves lasting scars on young queer people.

himani May 24, 2022 3 Comments
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