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8 Steps Every Girl Can Take to Get a Girl to Sleep Over

Hey are you a girl who likes girls? Do you want those girls to come over and maybe spend the night? Here’s 8 things ANYONE can do to increase their chances of getting some lesbian love!

Riese August 23, 2010 118 Comments
Dating

How to Date Girls: 10 Simple Rules for Properly Courting a Lesbian

Have you gotten over the giant hurdle of learning how to meet people/women? Are you now faced with the enormous task of convincing those people/women to stick around — properly? Lesbians have failed at romance long enough, it’s time you learn how to do it up right. We’ve got a post for that!

Sarah H August 12, 2010 167 Comments
Dating

Open Thread: You Probably Have a Crush Story to Share, Because You’re Gay

We thought you might have a feeling about this. It’s Saturday, so we’re calling it an open thread. If your comment is particularly good, I’ll probably put it on my tumblr, www.wecrush.tumblr.com, maybe you’ve heard of it. I had fries and gravy for breakfast.

Laneia July 10, 2010 173 Comments
Dating

Jess’s Team Pick: Dating Advice From a Butch at Ask AJ Anything

Cute butch AJ shares hilarious advice on dating, relationships, sex, the meaning of life on her YouTube channel AskAJAnything.

Jess July 9, 2010 1 Comment
Dating

How To Pick Up Chicks: A Lesbian Guide to Getting Girl-on-Girl Action

Hey anyone want a little girl-on-girl culture … in your pants? Well you’re not gonna get any if you don’t have your pants on. That’s one of many tips KC Danger would like to share with you — how to hit on chicks and get girls to go on dates with you or maybe one day have dinner, eat pizza, meet your mom, and have bang bang bang.

phoenix November 5, 2009 163 Comments
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