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Formspring Friday: Save a Lesbian For Less Than the Cost of a Cup of Coffee

Advice time! Time for advice! We need you to give all of these girls advice! We trust you and think you’re all very wise, so.

Laneia December 17, 2010 130 Comments
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Music

Audiostraddle Record Club: Go Listen To Holly Miranda’s Magician’s Private Library

You asked for it, so here it is – the second meeting of the Audiostraddle Record Club. Crystal really wants to discuss Holly Miranda’s ‘The Magician’s Private Library’.

Crystal December 17, 2010 21 Comments
Straddleverse

Your Week is Almost Over: It’s Hey Did You See That Comment Friday!

This intern needs an intern to write her excerpts.

Emily December 17, 2010 155 Comments
Society + Culture

Ivan Coyote on ‘Flying While Butch’: Don’t Let “State-Enforced Gender Conformity” Control You

“I managed to convince her that it was the wad of $20s I had from selling books in my front left pocket (I dress left), and she radioed back that the “object had been identified” and let me go, but my hands did not stop shaking for a couple of hours.”

Riese December 17, 2010 21 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Kevin Spacey Makes A Case For Why It’s OK Not To Say You’re Gay

Kevin Spacey refuses to declare his homosexy, John Travolta’s outing is now up for grabs on Joy Behar, Rosie O’Donnell talks about her show on the Oprah Winfrey Network and Glambert is back in our lives.

Jess December 16, 2010 36 Comments
School

Why Did Someone Spill Urine on 40 LGBTQ Books in the Harvard Library?

Someone poured urine over nearly 40 LGBT books in a library in Harvard. First it was classified as a hate crime, then it was classified as an accident, and either way, it’s weird.

Ryan Yates December 16, 2010 43 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

Courtney Trouble Wants to Turn You On: The Autostraddle Interview

Where the hell had Courtney Trouble been all my life?

gabby December 16, 2010 27 Comments
Politics + Activism

BREAKING FOR REAL: House Passes “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Repeal, Now We Must Charm the Senate

suck it, john mccain

the team December 15, 2010 36 Comments
Society + Culture

Riese’s Team Pick: What I’ve Learned

“My second husband committed suicide, and I did suicide jokes. You laugh to get through it. I started thinking about jokes while I was walking uptown on 9/11.”

Riese December 15, 2010 4 Comments
Politics + Activism

DADT Superstar Dan Choi Breaks Down as DADT Repeal Bill Runs Its Final Lap

“My breakdown was a result of a cumulative array of stressors but there is no doubt that the composite betrayals felt on Thursday, by elected leaders and gay organizations as well as many who have exploited my name for their marketing purposes have added to the result. I am certain my experience is not an isolated incident within the gay veteran community.”

Rachel December 15, 2010 8 Comments
Music

OPEN THREAD: Favorite Albums of 2010

It’s time for year-end lists galore! Jess G. shares some of her favorite albums of 2010. What were yours?

Jess G. December 14, 2010 119 Comments
Holigays

Lessons Learned: How a Jewy Lesbian Can Enjoy a Pleasant Chanukah with Her Uncharacteristically Bigoted Parents

Dad: Let’s light the candles.
Me: Let’s light your face.

Amy York Rubin December 14, 2010 47 Comments
Society + Culture

Gay Bullying: How Did We Get Here? An Expert Explains

It’s 2010, and Portia de Rossi just changed her last name to DeGeneres. How is bullying of gay kids in school really still a life-threatening problem? Finally, an actual expert gives you some answers.

Rachel December 14, 2010 11 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

“Everybody Knows John Travolta is Gay”

Basically this one time I said that John Travolta was gay and SOMEBODY was like “No he isn’t,” and I was like YES HE IS and now Carrie Fisher has said that he is so it’s true now which means I win. Is this tacky. Should we not talk about John Travolta being gay.

Riese December 14, 2010 82 Comments
The Scene

Come Party With Us At PYT Productions’ HOLIDAY STRADDLE, The 2011 Autostraddle Calendar Girls Release Party

Want to drink alcohol, have photographs taken of you in flattering lighting, and rub elbows/knees/heads/shoulders with Calendar Girls and other really really really super-fun lesbians and lesbian-appreciators? PARTY WITH US DECEMBER 17TH FOR THE 2011 CALENDAR LAUNCH PARTY WITH PYT PRODUCTIONS OMG

Party In My Pants December 13, 2010 47 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Being Trans Is So Hot Right Now, At Least For Celebrities And Models, Kinda

Good news, being trans is cool and hip now and not at all related to outrageously high rates of violence and widespread oppression and marginalization!

Rachel December 13, 2010 25 Comments
Parenting & Family

My Two (Lesbian) Mums

Look at the cute British lesbian couples and their children! Also, do you have two moms or two dads? We care. More inside.

Riese December 13, 2010 51 Comments
TV Feature

The Power of The Real L Word’s Whitney Mixter: The Autostraddle Interview

Jess talks to Whitney about the NY/LA divide, her thoughts on our Real L Word recaps and parody video, growing up as a different and androgynous child, her life changing experiences in Hawaii and Thailand and the very first time she was compared to Shane.

Jess December 12, 2010 33 Comments
Politics + Activism

Once More With Voting: We Hold Out Hope for DADT Repeal on Sunday Funday

We haven’t completely given up hope on a DADT repeal this year, and if there’s any grace in the world we’ll be rewarded for that with the new bill being pushed through Congress before the end of the year.

Rachel December 12, 2010 36 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Also Quick and Dirty

It’s Sunday. Do you know where your lesbian sex machine is. That’s a trick question. Best Lesbian Sex Scenes according to someone other than us, “Best Friends” get close, Taylor Momesen suggests that you masturbate, and you can make a map. A special map.

Riese December 12, 2010 19 Comments
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