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First Person

The Ones We Left Behind: On Being An Ally To Small Town Queers

“If you’re reading this and are currently in love with a tiny place that hasn’t loved you back yet, I want you to know that this is okay.”

fonseca October 15, 2012 86 Comments
Music

10 Reasons You Need Kaki King’s New Album, ‘Glow’

Besides “it’s Kaki King.”

Crystal October 15, 2012 15 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: Congee

The magic of congee though is that congee is whatever you dream for it to be.

Shannon October 15, 2012 25 Comments
Money + Work

Let The NYC LGBT Center Help You Find A Gay-Friendly Job

Vanessa’s Team Pick: A career fair at the LGBT Center in NYC and the chance to see Autostraddle’s Carly speak on a panel? Hello Monday, you’ve never looked so good!

Vanessa October 14, 2012 9 Comments
Lesbian Sex LGBT Book Reviews

20 Things You Can Take Away from “The S and M Feminist” Whether You’re Into S and M or Not

“Sex education should tell people how to explore what they want, not just that they should explore.”

A.E. Osworth October 14, 2012 55 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Casting A Vote for Gay Marriage

Roseanne Barr for President.

Carmen October 14, 2012 14 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes The Way You Move

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: hips & curves in costume, sex and politics, masturbation, sex memoirs, the best sex blogs and podcasts and Cheeky Spanking Stories!

Ryan Yates October 14, 2012 13 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Lesbian Avengers and the East Village Panel Is Happening Today and You Can Watch It

We’re live-streaming a Lesbian Avengers event from 3pm-6pm. Don’t miss it!

Gabrielle Korn October 13, 2012 1 Comment
Recipes

Get Baked: Cinderella Pumpkin Stew

Remember to finish eating before the clock strikes midnight, or else you’ll go back to being pumpkin stew-less [cue scary music].

Malaika October 13, 2012 27 Comments
Camp

A-Camp September Recamp #3: Reading Dancing Spooning Singing Sewing Clubbing Dreaming

On the third day, they created the heaven and earth, read some poems out loud, talked about coming out and religion and spooning and discovered the truth about cats and dogs.

Riese October 12, 2012 104 Comments
Queer Fashion

Oh Boy… Shorts! New Unicorn Plan-It Shirts and “You Do You” Briefs Now on Sale!

“You Do You” rib briefs and Unicorn Plan-It raglan baseball shirts are guaranteed to look good on you/are now available for consumption.

Alex October 12, 2012 28 Comments
Comedy

Eye of the Sparrow: Because Sometimes Politics are Hysterical

Ali’s Team Pick: Bad Lip Reading did a hilarious re-dubbing of the first presidential debate. Please, BLR, do more! We want more!

A.E. Osworth October 12, 2012 11 Comments
Politics + Activism

GChatting for Freedom: The Vice Presidential Debate

“With all due respect that is a bunch of malarkey.”

Rachel October 12, 2012 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

Chief Diversity Officer Opposes Gay Marriage, Is Suspended From Work, Raises Important Questions

Dr. Angela McCaskill is on paid administrative leave from her position as chief diversity officer at Gallaudet University because she signed a petition opposing gay marriage. Did the university make the right decision?

Vanessa October 12, 2012 36 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Can’t Wait To Meet You

It’s been a special week.

carrie October 12, 2012 5 Comments
Politics + Activism

Straight Man Has A Queer Year, Goes Back To Real Life With A Book Deal

Does it really take a straight man to tell the world about prejudice against queers? Apparently, yes.

Gabrielle Korn October 12, 2012 128 Comments
LGBT History

Herstory Live: The Lesbian Avengers School You On Their Ass-Kicking Roots

“We didn’t chain ourselves to anything, or clash with cops. We stood outside an elementary school in Queens as open dykes, and gave balloons to school kids.”

Kelly October 12, 2012 15 Comments
Community

An International Meet-Up Week Sexy Surprise

JUST WHEN YOU THOUGHT YOU COULDN’T BE ANY MORE EXCITED.

Gabrielle Korn October 12, 2012 17 Comments
Politics + Activism

It’s Getting Better for Gays in Latin America Thanks to Todo Mejora

“There is someone looking out for them …and it will get better.”

Carmen October 12, 2012 4 Comments
Straddleverse

It’s All Happening: Welcome To International Autostraddle Meet-Up Weeks!

OMFG IT’S TIME TO MEET-UP! Find your city on the list and wash your lucky shirt.

Vanessa October 12, 2012 69 Comments
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