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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #10: I Must Not Let Her Find Me Writing

This week in lit: T Cooper’s book soundtrack, favorite LGBT books of 2012, authors playing in the snow, poems from your cat’s point of view and more.

Ryan Yates December 27, 2012 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

Once More with Uneasy Feelings: California’s Ex-Gay Therapy Ban Halted, Must Go Back to Court

California’s ban on ex-gay therapy was slated to go into effect on January 1, 2013. But now, a federal court has ordered an injunction on the law, stopping it from going into effect until further hearings can be conducted.

Rachel December 27, 2012 6 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: It’s Not Too Late to be Too Late for Christmas

This video party has another music video relevant to your interests, George Takei, and some sexy book reading. Merry Days After Christmas.

Brittani December 27, 2012 6 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Touching Boobs for The Greater Good and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Viva le revolution! This week we’re taking down rape culture, the Westboro Baptist Church, and breast cancer.

Carmen December 26, 2012 7 Comments
Straddleverse

2012’s Most Popular Autostraddle Posts And Top Search Terms

The Top 10 Most Popular Autostraddle Posts of 2012, 2012’s Most-Commented-Upon Posts, Top Search Terms and so much more!

Riese December 26, 2012 49 Comments
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Playlist: Happy Boxing Day

Today we are celebrating boxes: boxes that you wrapped, received, recycled, or folded up to reuse for next year; boxes you have been put in and boxes you will free yourself from in 2013

Gabrielle Korn December 26, 2012 6 Comments
First Person

Going Down (South): Strapping It On

Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is only an effective strategy if you have boots to begin with.

fonseca December 26, 2012 19 Comments
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Drinks, Debauchery, and Oh Yeah, Art: A Queer Goes To Art Basel

“Rachel Maddow is actually really sweet in person. Like, really really sweet.”

Najva Sol December 26, 2012 38 Comments
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Almost Famous: Saucy Monky

New band for your ears! It’s saucy.

Crystal December 26, 2012 4 Comments
Straddleverse

Boxing Day Sale! Get 20% Off Everything In The Autostraddle Store

You have exactly one day to get 20% off 2013 calendars, You Do You t-shirts, totes & underpants, Autostraddle This t-shirts, Straddle This boxer-briefs, Unicorn Plan-It shirts, A-Camp t-shirts and totes and “So Many Feelings” Memo Books!

the team December 26, 2012 18 Comments
Book Features

More Than Words: Láadan

The feminist sci-fi language that never got to jump off the page and do what it was supposed to.

Cara December 25, 2012 26 Comments
Queer Fashion

Girl Gallery: 25 Days of Dapper

We coming bearing good tidings of great joy: a gallery of 61 people looking dandy as f*ck for the holiday season.

Laura December 25, 2012 60 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Infused Rum

Today, I’ll be drinking my brother’s Christmas present: infused rum!

Hansen December 25, 2012 21 Comments
Christmas

20 Lesbionic Homoerotic Christmas Stock Photographs

Even stock photographers get a little kinky this time of year.

Riese December 24, 2012 20 Comments
Politics + Activism

Michigan, Not Our Michigan: How MI’s Reactionary Politics are Driving Away Young Grads

I’m one of the countless numbers of educated young people who left the Detroit area. And it’s not just the economy, stupid, but the state’s constant refrain of anti-women, anti-labor, anti-LGBT politics that drove me away.

Rose December 24, 2012 24 Comments
Food Lists

Ode to My Pantry: Salt

Salt, the super condiment, is no longer playing back up to your pepper shaker.

Kristen December 24, 2012 22 Comments
Christmas

Christmakwanzakah OPEN THREAD: For All Your Hapless/Happy Holigay Feelings!

Whether you’re full of egg nog or feelings, this is a place to share your delight and horror during this especially special time of year.

Riese December 24, 2012 299 Comments
Community

Straddler On The Street: Tiara

This week’s Straddler is Tiara, better known as Creatrix Tiara around these parts. She chats about the concept of “home”, coming to terms with her sexuality, and how to be a llama.

Vanessa December 24, 2012 19 Comments
LGBT History

Astraea, A Lesbian Foundation for Justice: The Autostraddle Interview

“I know that there are many groups who we fund that if we didn’t they simply wouldn’t exist, they would close. There is dire need for the resources we provide.”

Jamie J. Hagen December 24, 2012 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

Style Thief: New Year’s Eve Edition

I’m stealing the clothes right off nine of my favorite queer style icons in this very special New Year’s Eve edition of Style Thief.

Lizz December 24, 2012 21 Comments
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