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South African Straddler Meet Up: Make It Happen With Vanessa

HI STRADDLERS WHO LIVE IN CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA. ARE YOU OUT THERE? I AM COMING TO VISIT NEXT WEEK AND I WANNA MEET YOU.

Vanessa June 26, 2013 65 Comments
TV Feature

VIDEO: “Little Horribles” Episode 3: Date

A hilariously less-than-communicative Jennifer Bartels puts Amy through hell on a date that’s, well, a little horrible.

Brittani June 26, 2013 13 Comments
Politics + Activism

Also.Also.Also: Why Don’t We Wanna Internet Bang? And More In The Stories We Missed This Week

EVERYONE SUCKS. Except Sarah McBride.

Carmen June 26, 2013 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

BREAKING: Supreme Court Declares DOMA Unconstitutional, Rules “No Standing” on Prop 8

The Supreme Court has ruled DOMA unconstitutional and that the petitioners in Prop 8 did not have standing.

Rachel June 26, 2013 126 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Max Campbell

Max is an indie-folk artist from Montana with a brand-new EP about growing up and moving on.

Crystal June 26, 2013 3 Comments
Music

Captain’s Log: New Music from M.I.A., The Julie Ruin and Haerts

Just some awesome new songs Stef thought you’d like, because she knows you like a cartographer knows a sextant, like a whale knows the sea.

Stef June 25, 2013 8 Comments
Visual Art

5 Photography & Arts Blogs I’m Obsessed With Right Now

From lost classics of teen lit to NYC filming locations to “the gang’s all queer” to the whole entire world and back.

Riese June 25, 2013 4 Comments
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Supreme Court Strikes Down Heart of Voting Rights Act, Endangers Many Voters’ Rights

The Supreme Court struck down a key component of the Voting Rights Act, specifically the portion which requires states to get federal permission before they can make changes to their voting laws. This is a huge deal for voters’ rights.

Rachel June 25, 2013 13 Comments
TV Feature

Those Shady Gays: A Reflection on Mad Men, Downton Abbey and Revenge

The untrustworthy homosexual is a lazy way to add ‘diversity’ to your television show. Let’s talk about it!

Casey Quinlan June 25, 2013 30 Comments
Politics + Activism

Barbara Buono’s Gay Daughter Rips Chris Christie a New Orifice

Tessa Bitterman takes on Governor Christie for his record on queer issues and tells everyone to chip in and support her mom, Barbara Buono, in the upcoming New Jersey Gubernatorial Election.

A.E. Osworth June 25, 2013 5 Comments
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More Than Words: So Androgynous

The word that gives “you do you” a whole new meaning.

Cara June 25, 2013 12 Comments
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Team Pick: Coffitivity Brings the Cafe Right Into Your Living Room

Lizz’s Team Pick: Coffitivity brings the atmosphere of a coffee shop right into your living room.

Lizz June 25, 2013 10 Comments
Camp

A-Camp May 2013 Recamp #4: YUP.

In our last recamp, we party at the pool, dance all night, have feelings, display talent, and wish it never had to end.

Riese June 24, 2013 114 Comments
Politics + Activism

Coy Mathis, 6-Year-Old Trans Girl, Wins Landmark Civil Rights Case and Makes History

The Chicago Civil Rights Division said that in putting up these special rules for Coy, her school created “an environment that is objectively and subjectively hostile, intimidating or offensive.”

Mey June 24, 2013 15 Comments
Queer Fashion

The Aesthetics of Masculinity: Butch v. Tomboy Style

What does butch style really mean? What about tomboy fashion? Four queers give you their take on where the two differ and where they collide.

Qwear June 24, 2013 80 Comments
October 2013 A-Camp
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Introducing Camp Autostraddle 4.0

A-Camp just keeps getting better and better which means this October’s gonna blow your mind. Registration starts NOW.

the team June 24, 2013 223 Comments
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Sex Toys

Autostraddle Anonymous Sex Toy Review: A Coffee Chat About The Mustang

So I inserted it into her and she literally said, the second it happened, “We are never fucking with anything else again.”

Guest June 24, 2013 15 Comments
Food Lists

Ode to My Pantry: Garlic Scapes

Summer’s here so I finally get to eat in the daylight. Why not celebrate with my favourite summer offering?

Kristen June 24, 2013 9 Comments
Community

Straddler On The Street: Grace from Best Day Project

“…I questioned whether or not Autostraddle is a lesbian cult and if it isn’t, how I’m going to deal with my like peaking.” Want to know the context of this sentiment? You need to read this interview and meet Grace.

Vanessa June 24, 2013 29 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Ask You To Tandem Ride

This week on NSFW Sunday: the end of Strap-On Week, Game of Thrones supercut, why talking about porn is important, and more.

Ryan Yates June 23, 2013 7 Comments
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