DIY Soy Massage Candles For The Holigays (and Beyond)
Pour hot wax on your partner! The perfect activity for chilly winter nights.
Straight People Watch: Fall 2K17
Guess who are still not okay?
Watch YouTube Star Elle Mills Come Out, Feel Your Heart Grow Three Sizes
Why not cry for a good reason today!
Monday Roundtable: What Kind of Bitch Are You?
I can and will figure out a way to do everything by myself to keep from having to be nice to someone I don’t want to be nice to. I don’t want to be nice to a lot of people.
You’re Throwing the Legendary Theme Party of Your Dreams (with This Guide)
“Don’t half-ass a themed party. No one will ever trust you to throw a party again.”
Disney Pixar’s “Coco” Showed Me My Mexican Self On Screen Like Never Before
Everyone in the film is Mexican. Everything in the film is Mexican. Everyone and everything is me.
This Whole Pierced Clothing Trend Is Making Me Hot
I think my years of wanting skin piercings may be over, but I’m still excited about the pierced clothing and accessories all over the place.
You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain
The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.
“195 Lewis” Is a Love Letter to Black, Queer Brooklyn
What I can say, with the utmost love, is that this series feels like Brooklyn. It feels like the Brooklyn that raised me and protected me as a young woman. It feels like Sisterhood. It’s funny and smart and bright and challenging.
Sunday Funday Loves Rock Star Quinceañeras
Lesbians who love IKEA, Laura Jane Grace rocking out for tots, and tons of queer TV on the horizon. Happy Sunday Funday!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is On Top
Femmes who strap on, a history of sex toys, where data fails in thinking about sex and more.
Boob(s On Your) Tube: Jingle Your Jangle, It’s Time to Talk About “Riverdale”
Plus The Shannara Chronicles blesses Eretria and Lyria with a happy ending.
Femme Brûlée: Vegan Cranberry Sauce Muffins
People generally take a spoonful of cranberry sauce, at most, leaving behind a bunch of the sweet, tart, spiced deliciousness to get tossed in the trash. It always breaks my heart. I LOVE cranberry sauce and think it deserves better so I made this recipe to remedy this issue.
Baopu #40: When I left Me
I helped myself find acceptance. But where do I go from here?
2017 Black Friday Deal Guide To Black Friday Deals You Can Get Without Getting Up This Black Friday Sale Day
Black Friday Wildfang! Black Friday Deals J Crew! Black Friday H&M Deals. Black Friday Shopping Deals. Wow Black Friday deals for queers right here, what a day we are all having right now, what a time to be alive, what a time to go shopping!!!!!!
The Comment Awards Are Thankful For You
Mommi Mia, here we go again.
S.H.E. Episode VIII: Morning People
“I’m focused. I’m driven. I’m hydrated and independent.”
Lez Liberty Lit: As Simple As Being
Women writers have friendships, too; women having control over their bodies; a poem from Eileen Myles and more.
Things I Read That I Love #251: To Stand in a Shadowless Field in Three Layers of Tweed
Topics include being Midwestern, Second Life, restorative nostalgia, getting an abortion in South Dakota, Chuck E Cheese, Andrew Cunanan, Manson bloggers and so much more!
OPEN THREAD: Your Internet Friendsgiving Extravaganza
Whether you need company today, solidarity when it comes to family, or just someone to share memes with, we’ve got you covered. Get in here!