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Beauty

How Stiletto Nails Helped Me Embrace My Queer High Femme Identity

My nails may contribute to the erasure of my queer identity, but they represent a departure from following other people’s rules — and instead listening to my own voice.

Alysse Dalessandro August 15, 2017 23 Comments
Money + Work

Show Us Your Planners: A Queer Organization Roundtable

“I like my setup right now because it’s a visual reminder that little by little, progress adds up.”

A.E. Osworth August 15, 2017 58 Comments
Beauty

Kitchen Cabinet Nail Treatments From Nail Transphobia’s Charlie Craggs

Charlie Craggs shares simple at-home remedies for brittle nails, dry hands, fungus, and more.

Nora August 15, 2017 4 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy Finally Have Their First In-Canon, Main-Universe Kiss!

We’ve got not one, not two, but three images of Harley and Ivy kissing in this article!

Mey August 15, 2017 14 Comments
Beauty

AM/PM: Sandwiches for Breakfast

In AM/PM, Autostraddle team members share our morning and evening rituals; today find out what face Alexis makes first thing in the morning.

A. Tony Jerome August 15, 2017 11 Comments
The four sestras bond around the fire.
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“Orphan Black” Episode 510 Recap: Goodbye to You

What a trip, man.

Valerie Anne August 14, 2017 67 Comments
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PHOTOESSAY: The Charlottesville Solidarity March in Los Angeles

White silence = violence, and it is well past the time to stand up.

Molly August 14, 2017 7 Comments
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Autostraddle Roundtable: The Lesbian Sex Scene That Changed My Life

“The violins kept getting more and more excited and so did I and by the end of that three-minute scene I was gay.”

the team August 14, 2017 74 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Mastering the Art of Coming Out (and Making Lobster Bisque)

“I decided to make lobster bisque for my mom at the same moment I decided to come out to her. Only one of those things went according to plan.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 14, 2017 35 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make Your Own Kickass Block Printed Patch

A patch that you’ve made and sewn on yourself — especially if it’s sewn with dental floss — is a badge of honor professing your ideals, feels, and crew.

Katie August 14, 2017 7 Comments
Beauty

Kristen Stewart’s Makeup Artist Wants to Make You a Proud *Eye*sexual

I hope you’re good with your fingers.

Nora August 14, 2017 2 Comments
Politics + Activism

Fuck You, Nazis: Some Links

On the White Supremacist “rally” in Charlottesville

Riese August 13, 2017 12 Comments
Politics + Activism

Trump Lit The “Good Ol’ Boy” Torches That Set Charlottesville on Fire

The step from “good ol’ boy” to “armed white supremacist mob member” is as simple as believing you have to protect a way of life that’s under attack by an “other.”

Heather Hogan August 13, 2017 19 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is the Orgasm Capital of the World

Who gave you herpes, how to criticize a partner, being friends with exes, women designing sex toys and more.

Ryan Yates August 13, 2017 3 Comments
Waverly holds Nicole while she calls 911
TV Show Recaps

“Wynonna Earp” Episode 210 Recap: Haught Damn

There are now four queer women on this show and none of them are dead!

Valerie Anne August 13, 2017 42 Comments
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Yo! That’s Not Cool #1: Hi, My Name Is Brittney Williams

“You got any snacks?”

Brittney Williams August 12, 2017 21 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: “The Fosters” Wins Again With a Stef and Lena-Heavy Episode

Also let’s check in with the women of Claws and the smoochy shenanigans on Younger.

Heather Hogan August 11, 2017 7 Comments
Queer Fashion

Style Diary: How Three Chic, Comfy Outfits Tell the Story of My Transition

When I came out as trans, I felt like I needed to be high femme. These days, I’d rather just be me.

Sam Riedel August 11, 2017 24 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I’m Turning Into My Mom!

Are you turning into your mom this week? Did you also have to give your cat some Xanax in order to have a happy home? Did you see that full moon in Aquarius??? She was so beautiful.

Ari August 11, 2017 147 Comments
Movie Reviews

5 Reasons You Should See “Girls Trip” (Again) This Weekend

“This is one of the best portrayals of the Strong Black Woman Syndrome I’ve seen in a long time.”

A. Tony Jerome August 11, 2017 12 Comments
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