How Stiletto Nails Helped Me Embrace My Queer High Femme Identity
My nails may contribute to the erasure of my queer identity, but they represent a departure from following other people’s rules — and instead listening to my own voice.
My nails may contribute to the erasure of my queer identity, but they represent a departure from following other people’s rules — and instead listening to my own voice.
“I like my setup right now because it’s a visual reminder that little by little, progress adds up.”
Charlie Craggs shares simple at-home remedies for brittle nails, dry hands, fungus, and more.
We’ve got not one, not two, but three images of Harley and Ivy kissing in this article!
In AM/PM, Autostraddle team members share our morning and evening rituals; today find out what face Alexis makes first thing in the morning.
What a trip, man.
White silence = violence, and it is well past the time to stand up.
“The violins kept getting more and more excited and so did I and by the end of that three-minute scene I was gay.”
“I decided to make lobster bisque for my mom at the same moment I decided to come out to her. Only one of those things went according to plan.”
A patch that you’ve made and sewn on yourself — especially if it’s sewn with dental floss — is a badge of honor professing your ideals, feels, and crew.
I hope you’re good with your fingers.
On the White Supremacist “rally” in Charlottesville
The step from “good ol’ boy” to “armed white supremacist mob member” is as simple as believing you have to protect a way of life that’s under attack by an “other.”
Who gave you herpes, how to criticize a partner, being friends with exes, women designing sex toys and more.
There are now four queer women on this show and none of them are dead!
“You got any snacks?”
Also let’s check in with the women of Claws and the smoochy shenanigans on Younger.
When I came out as trans, I felt like I needed to be high femme. These days, I’d rather just be me.
Are you turning into your mom this week? Did you also have to give your cat some Xanax in order to have a happy home? Did you see that full moon in Aquarius??? She was so beautiful.
“This is one of the best portrayals of the Strong Black Woman Syndrome I’ve seen in a long time.”