How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker

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Artwork by Viv Le

I would like to be more involved with the kink community. Currently, I wouldn't say I'm involved with the community at all.

Is there in person community outside of big cities?
How ...

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Vanessa is a writer, a teacher, and the community editor at Autostraddle. Very hot, very fun, very weird. Find her on twitter and instagram.

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