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A+ Sex Diary: Fucking an Ex and Feeling Myself

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: a mid-twenties femme juggling multiple long-distance relationships hooks up with her ex.

By Guest|November 20, 2018|6 Comments
A+

A+ Sex Diary: Tender Pervert

In this sex diary: sleepy sexting, long-distance travel, midnight fisting, lots of messes and more.

By Guest|October 18, 2018|8 Comments
A+

A+ Sex Diary: Not Here for Love, But Let’s Flirt Forever

In this sex diary: Tinder spanking dates, post-breakup anxieties, sex in a tent, and a lot of thoughts on fucking your friends.

By Guest|September 13, 2018|12 Comments
A+ Sex + Relationships

A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance

In this queer sex diary: long-distance FaceTime fucking, a dish rack full of sex toys, feeling sad, feeling S.A.D., and feeling goofy and good.

By Guest|August 15, 2018|5 Comments
A+ Sex + Relationships

A+ Sex Diary: Masturbation Challenge Accepted

In this sex diary: a single femme sets herself a masturbation challenge. New sex toys, late-night porn, learning to feel free and more.

By Guest|June 21, 2018|4 Comments
A+ Sex + Relationships

A+ Sex Diary: Fucking and Napping

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature for Silver & Gold members in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: A single, soft butch writer openly dating multiple people. Lesbian, 32, the American west.

By Guest|May 31, 2018|14 Comments

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