Anonymous Sex Diary: Tenderness Lingers

Welcome back to our Anonymous Sex Diaries series where queer and trans people from around the world let us into a seven day snippet of their sex, love and dating lives.

Day 1
I'm driving my boyfriend to a date with a guy he met who lives across town. We're in an open (T4T, "straight") relationship that allows us to have other casual hookups, romantic relationships, etc. He's hooked up with this guy a couple times but hasn't indicated that it's more serious than casual sex. I have a few hours to myself with no real plans, projects or errands hanging over me; a rare luxury. At this point I could go home and start a movie (probably some excruciating New French Extremity thing where the female protagonists are cold, stoic and have frigh...

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