Anonymous Sex Diary: Tenderness Lingers

Welcome back to our Anonymous Sex Diaries series where queer and trans people from around the world let us into a seven day snippet of their sex, love and dating lives.

Day 1
I'm driving my boyfriend to a date with a guy he met who lives across town. We're in an open relationship that allows us to have other casual hookups, romantic relationships, etc. He's hooked up with this guy a couple times but hasn't indicated that it's more serious than casual sex. I have a few hours to myself with no real plans, projects or errands hanging over me; a rare luxury. At this point I could go home and start a movie (probably some excruciating New French Extremity thing where the female protagonists are cold, stoic and have frightening sexual proc...

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