The babe behind the buckles is Emma Alamo — a queer creator, a recovering alcoholic, a proud power bottom and business owner with serious hustle. Emma welcomed me into her studio and talked about social media, body image and building a career selling bondage gear.
Want to reward bad behavior but don’t know where to start? These paddles are one possibility.
You’re in luck — kinky sex requires nothing but two (or more) bodies and a little imagination.
A play party is just like any other party — if it’s a good party, it’s probably a loud party, and if it’s a great party, it ends in an orgasm.
Breaking up is hard to do, but what do we know about breakups between Dominant and submissive? This is a personal exploration of how grief settles when the collar comes off.
You don’t need to measure up to any of the things you’ve been taught are the “right” ways to be as a sexual being. There is no way to do sexuality “right” by any objective, external standard.
These photos investigate the connection between pleasure and pain, and how kink can blur the line between where the body ends and the brain begins.
We interviewed photographer Candy Feit about her inspiration, process, and intentions for Cruel To Be Kind, her most recent photography project.
Worried you can’t be a good Dominant because you’re too anxious or awkward? Don’t be.
Let’s just cut the crap and say it: We’re Horny for the Holigays.
Hosting your very own play party can feel like a lot, but with this guide you and your guests all set for a fun, chill and sexy time.
Your hands are your first and best sex toy, and one thing you can do with them is spank people! Hot. Let’s talk about how you can do that in a safe and sexy way!
How do you know what to do at a play party if you aren’t sure of all the kink etiquette? What if you just want to watch? What do you wear?? Whether you’re a top or bottom, dominant or submissive, switch, voyeur or exhibitionist, here’s the basics of what you need to know to have a great time at your first play party.
An understanding of the leather community can help us co-exist, share spaces and celebrate all of the different ways to live queer lives.
Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!
Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!
Here’s how to make a basic shibari chest harness!
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.