An understanding of the leather community can help us co-exist, share spaces and celebrate all of the different ways to live queer lives.
Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!
Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!
Here’s how to make a basic shibari chest harness!
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
Do you like sex? Do you like awesome minimalist jewelry? I have some news for you!
What to wear when you don’t want to channel Leather Mommi Barbie.
In my day-to-day life my brattiness shows up as snark and a tendency to play devil’s advocate. It wasn’t until I entered the BDSM scene five years ago that I learned to express it in new and unexpected ways.
What does it mean to be queer and a sex worker at Skirt Club?
“You are so so soft and just achingly warm and good and I’m just dying with the urge to pin and grind and tease and make you even wetter for me, taste you in your bed.”
“Something about our conversations just makes me want to take off my underwear. And by ‘something’ I mean ‘everything.'”
no this look on my face is “excitement”
look how excited I am
also turned on
also our therapist says Tuesday morning is still good
“I like my fucking deliciously stressful, especially after a good spanking, and in the hands of a capable partner the business end of the Bück can provide.”
I feel lighter than I’ve been in a year. I feel ecstatic with the possibilities. I feel giddy, like I’m falling in love.
I get it now. Hot toppy girls will like me just as I am or they won’t get to like me at all. I am good enough.
Before any of my other sexuality identities, I was kinky.
I’m queer, and I’m kinky. But being kinky doesn’t make me queer. Kink is not a sexual orientation.
It’s not that I don’t want to submit, it’s that submitting is so different from how I have to conduct my life that it takes effort to turn off that HBIC part of me so that I can relish letting go.