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Geekery

Interview With Two Queer Engineers: Katie and Kelly Votolato

“We got asked if we were sisters-in-law. Like we had brothers or something –”
“Like, no, we’re married to each other.”
“They really couldn’t wrap their heads around us.”

Laura Mandanas October 25, 2017 11 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Queer Fashion

Sew Your Own: Your Favorite Queer Characters’ Wardrobes

For Halloween or for every day, here’s how to stitch up a look inspired by your favorite fictional queer women.

Shannon October 25, 2017 7 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Tessa Thompson’s Valkyrie Is Marvel’s First Bisexual Character and More Gay Superhero News

Also Samira Wiley’s new TV show is here, the secret to talkshow success is maybe lesbians?, gay teen superhero Traci Thirteen is getting her own show, Rosanne, Emily Fields and more!

Heather Hogan October 25, 2017 28 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Amandla Stenberg Guides Us Gently Into Scorpio Season

In which Danielle Brooks is dancing to “Bodak Yellow” and Cara Delevingne is here to offer you alternative transportation solutions.

Stef October 25, 2017 5 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: “The Tea Dragon Society” is the Cutest, Most Creative All-Ages Fantasy Comic in Years

The Tea Dragon Society is a perfect all-ages book for anyone who wants a fun fantasy story, something calming to read on a stormy day or before bedtime or anyone who enjoys art that puts a smile on your face and a warm feeling in your heart.

Mey October 25, 2017 6 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle Feelings Atrium: Sara Ramirez in This Suit and Suspenders With a Pocket Chain Around Your Heart

She’s joining the cast of Madam Secretary as a series regular. We don’t know much about her character from this picture but also we kind of know everything.

Carmen Phillips October 24, 2017 122 Comments
Maggie kisses Alex
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 303 Recap: Father’s Day

It’s time for Alex and Maggie’s bridal shower, and Maggie decides to try to reconnect with her homophobic father.

Valerie Anne October 24, 2017 22 Comments
Music

Julia Weldon, Indie Singer-Songwriter: Chasing Life and Defeating Death

Two years ago Julia Weldon fell into a coma after top surgery; she’s back with a new album full of hope.

Shelly Simon October 24, 2017 5 Comments
Coming to Power / Jeans with Hanky in Left Pocket
Book Features LGBT History

Our Sex Is Good: Kink Writing in the 1980s–1990s

How two 1970s and 1980s lesbian BDSM books changed the national conversation around feminism, lesbianism, and kink.

Ari October 24, 2017 8 Comments
Health

You Need Help: Your Therapist Is Clueless About Disability

Yes, helpful therapists exist! Yes, they are worth it! And yes, they are very hard to find! Stay with me.

Carrie October 24, 2017 12 Comments
LGBT History

BREAKING: Alleged Murder Thrusts Actress Libby Holman Back into Loving Arms of Heiress Ex-Girlfriend and We’re So Here For It

When you’re a Broadway starlet indicted for the murder of your wealthy young boyfriend even though it was a suicide, who’re you gonna call? Your wealthy ex-girlfriend!

Riese October 23, 2017 14 Comments
Halloween

Roundtable: Our Spookiest Real Ghost Stories

Turn on all the lights in the house and come read about the Winchester Mystery House, haunted cabins, songs playing from beyond the veil, and our deeply unsurprising number of experiences with ghost cats.

the team October 23, 2017 51 Comments
TV Reviews

Hulu’s “Harlots” Is a Gift to Feminists, Sex Workers, Queers and Herstory Lovers

Despite taking place 250 years ago, Hulu’s Harlots manages to depict indoor-market sex work more authentically than any show or movie I’ve seen (and I’ve seen a lot!) — queer stuff very much included.

Riese October 23, 2017 10 Comments
Queer Fashion

3 Tips for Mastering Button-Down Shirts When You’re Busty

Most of my button-downs come from the men’s section, so they’re not made for busts like mine. Luckily, with practice and perseverance, I’ve figured a few things out.

Doreen Pierre October 23, 2017 32 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is a Resilient Handyma’am

Lesbians in space, in coveralls, in books, in film; lesbians EVERYWHERE! Happy Sunday Funday.

Ari October 22, 2017 16 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Never 100% Risk-Free

STI horror, turning an ex into a best friend, it’s okay to care about love if you care about love, when you can only orgasm when you have to pee and more.

Ryan Yates October 22, 2017 2 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kristin: Break Ups

We got in bed and talked about break ups! How to heal your heart, how to trust again, & how to get your shit back from your ex! Also, Jenny invented a new sport called “Flumeball.” ENJOY.

Kristin October 21, 2017 1 Comment
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s on Your) Tube: Luisa and Rose Are Back on “Jane the Virgin”

Plus, American Horror Story is covered in S.C.U.M., The Shannara Chronicles has bedazzled eyebrows, and more queer lady TV updates!

Valerie Anne October 21, 2017 18 Comments
Thanks for the memories, straight girl!
Dating

Y’All Need Help #12: The Straight Girl Is Back

The Straight Girl is back, this friendship after the relationship is bleak, and a complicated wedding situation that you may or may not should go to. Get in here!

Laneia October 21, 2017 21 Comments
Webcomics

Grease Bats: Grab Yer Pumpkins

“Ivanka Trump claiming to have a punk phase — she is NOT taking punk from us.”

Archie October 21, 2017 10 Comments
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