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Webcomics

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #55: Conflation

Why push each other down when we all need some heavy lifting?

A. Andrews September 5, 2018 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Hayley Kiyoko Stars in My Imaginary Remake of “Children of the Corn”

Come for the Lindsay Lohan awkwardly dancing in Mykonos content but stay for the picture of Janelle Monáe biting coyly into an olive.

Stef September 5, 2018 14 Comments
TV Feature

VOTE NOW in Autostraddle’s Inaugural Gay Emmys!

The Academy of Television Arts & Sciences — like Hollywood itself, and mainstream TV criticism — continues to be dominated by a voting block of mostly straight white men. So, for the first time ever, we’ve decided to host our own Autostraddle TV awards to coincide with the Emmys.

The TV Team September 4, 2018 87 Comments
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Sex

Squirting 101: Soak Up the Pleasure, Soak Up the Fun

The thing is, there’s no RIGHT way to squirt or to get someone to squirt. There’s no one trick that gets every person, without fail, to magically ejaculate like a pro. That said, here are some places you can get started in trying to hosting your very own water show.

Courtney September 4, 2018 11 Comments
small island in the middle of the water
Gender Issues

The Nothing Between Your Legs

“She’s a tomboy,” your mother says, frustrated. “I’m sure she’ll grow out of it when she gets interested in boys.” “More dolls,” repeats Mrs. Morris. They plan to doll this little problem out of you.

Hamilton September 4, 2018 25 Comments
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“In Intimate Detail” Is the Singular Guide to Lingerie – and It’s Queer-Inclusive

“I’ve had conversations with brands where they’ve been very explicit about who their customers weren’t. They weren’t plus size people. They weren’t queer people. They weren’t people of color. And those attitudes affect me as well as a black, queer woman.”

Jeanna September 4, 2018 3 Comments
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First Person

For Your Consideration: Ignoring Someone You Run Into

Is it cold to ignore or avoid someone from your past when you cross paths? Maybe! Does it also often feel a whole lot better than engaging? Hell yeah!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 4, 2018 24 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Wynonna Earp” Episode 307 Recap: Haught for Sheriff

Wynonna gets to know her sister’s girlfriend a bit better as her and Haught run around town getting into all kinds of hijinks.

Valerie Anne September 3, 2018 21 Comments
don draper versus jenny schecter
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Don Draper vs Jenny Schecter: The Sexist Battle of the TV Anti-Heroes

Even now, almost a decade after The L Word’s final season, with LGBTQ+ representation at unprecedented heights, we still hold Jenny Schecter up as our ultimate villain. Her name is a curse, a swear, a shortcut for derision. She is a model of bad behavior.

Heather Hogan September 3, 2018 55 Comments
Jewish Holidays

Queering the Jewish Holidays: How I Celebrate Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur

Apples! Honey! Vision boards! Fasting! Resolutions! Let’s talk about how we celebrate the Jewish High Holidays.

Vanessa September 3, 2018 22 Comments
Issues

Monday Roundtable: Breaking Up and Fucking Up

Just some of the many ways we ruin our lives after a breakup.

the team September 3, 2018 25 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Excited for Dream Daddy Comics

A Black lesbian couple is changing the Palm Springs gay scene, a portrait series celebrating older trans people, the DNC adopted language to include non-binary people and more!

Ari September 2, 2018 4 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Quantifying Desire

Don’t sleep with your ex. Plus the age at which self-esteem peaks, how to get comfortable with your junk, top sexual fantasies and more.

Ryan Yates September 2, 2018 2 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Blueberry Skillet Cornbread

“It’s amazing what baking can do for a bad day, especially when there’s something as tantalizing as blueberry skillet cornbread waiting at the finish line.”

Reneice Charles September 1, 2018 16 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

September 2018 Queer Horoscopes: You Already Know How to Clean Up Your Retrograde Messes

Make peace with uncertainty in all your relationships, and trust that Virgo season will help you achieve some needed clarity.

Corina Dross September 1, 2018 10 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #50: Too Awesome for Mom and Dad

“My parents fight so much. And when I spend time with them I become miserable and toxic, just like them!”

Yao Xiao September 1, 2018 7 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 48, August 2018

“for a second i was like…………….did i break this channel
with my confession”

Riese August 31, 2018 27 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: The Sinner’s Black Lesbian Detective Digs Up an Old First Love Story to Understand a New Murder

The Sinner’s Second Season has a black lesbian lead and a very compelling mystery. Plus updates on: Coronation Street, General Hospital, Younger, The Young and the Restless, and Killjoys!

The TV Team August 31, 2018 4 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: LET’S MAKE A MAKEOUT PLAYLIST

This Friday, we’re getting ahead of the game and making a playlist together for cuffing season! Add your favorite song to our collaborative playlist and talk about it in the comments!

Ari August 31, 2018 73 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Kissing at the VMAs

“All my favorite lesbian love stories start when the hats align.”

Darcy August 31, 2018 21 Comments
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