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Y’All Need Help #23: Spring Cleaning Part 2

30 questions! IS ONE OF THEM YOURS?? Wow!

Laneia April 7, 2018 43 Comments
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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Oh My G! Massager

If intense and focused vibration is what you’ve been looking for in a g-spot toy, the Oh My G! is here for you.

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Regardless of gender and sexuality, everybody’s got a butt. Here’s how to try butt plugs for the first time, how to add butt plugs to lesbian sex, and how to find the butt plug that’s right for you.

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Relationships

Monday Roundtable: The Real and Fictional Couples Who Inspired Our Very First Relationship Goals

Whether we saw them on screen or in real life, we took notice of these dynamic couples and their undeniable chemistry and love.

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Confessions of a little spoon, dealing with poly jealousy, Shenny fan-fic, star signs with excellent sexual chemistry, the roots of our out-of-the-ordinary sexual desires and more! #shennystraddle

Riese April 1, 2018 5 Comments
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Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Tantric Masturbation

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Ryan Yates March 18, 2018 13 Comments
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Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.

Ryan Yates March 13, 2018 13 Comments
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Ryan Yates March 11, 2018 5 Comments
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #21: You’ll All Be Painters

Being shy and 27 and coming out, feeling a way about your exes, moving to your long-distance girlfriend’s city, telling your long-distance friend you’re crushing on her, and swing dancing!

Laneia March 10, 2018 28 Comments
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Riese March 8, 2018 16 Comments
Breakups

How To Be Friends With Your Ex

Is it possible? Yes! Is it a good idea? Only sometimes! Here’s everything you need to know about being friends with your ex-girlfriend.

Ryan Yates March 6, 2018 13 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Net Neutrality

Stop self-sabotaging, avoid toxic sex toys, defend net neutrality, say no when you need to, try an orgasm cleanse and more.

Ryan Yates March 4, 2018 3 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: You’re in Love with a Straight Girl and You Want It to Stop

Take a deep breath. You can get through this.

Ryan Yates February 28, 2018 22 Comments
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How to Write a Non-Monogamous Dating Profile

Here’s how to fly your consensually non-monogamous, polyamorous, consensually open relationship or whatever else flag in your dating profile so you get the best possible interactions from it.

Andre February 27, 2018 20 Comments
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I Built a Lesbian Sex Robot

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Heather Davidson February 27, 2018 25 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How To Muff

The dating apps working to create safer experiences for people of color and queer and trans people, how to muff, how to have boundaries and more.

Ryan Yates February 25, 2018 9 Comments
Relationships

Y’All Need Help #20: Is This Too Many Metaphors?

Your family buys you weird gifts, your mom is kinda rude about your long-distance girlfriend, and you can’t move on after this breakup. Let’s get some shit done! Come on!

Laneia February 24, 2018 19 Comments
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