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Relationships

You Need Help: Long-Distance Relationships

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Sex

How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman

Sex between someone with a penis and someone with a vagina gets a lot of representation, but not when the penis-haver is a woman. Here’s everything you need to know about lesbian sex with trans women who have penises.

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Y’All Need Help #25: Spring Cleaning Part 4

Did someone say they needed me to answer 19 questions in one post?? No, they did not, but I did it anyway!!

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Sex

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Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.

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Dating

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One person is worried being femme and bi will stop her from dating. Another is worried being fat and having no experience will. Good news! None of that will stop you!

Mey April 27, 2018 22 Comments
Sex

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Everything you need to know about how to have lesbian shower sex, including positions, tips, how to avoid falling into the ninth circle of Dante’s Inferno and more.

Ryan Yates April 24, 2018 7 Comments
Sex

“The Gift” Is Young M.A’s Gift to Lesbian Porn

Young M.A directed a porn and well, it’s porn!

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You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated

You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have sex while respecting your history of trauma, here are some tips!

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Breakups

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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Shi-Shi Union

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Relationships

Five Poly People on Navigating Jealousy in Any Type of Relationship

Everyone gets jealous. It’s how you handle it that counts.

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Dating Identity

You Need Help: You’re Gay but Oh No You’re Falling for a Man, What the F*ck

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