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Lesbian Dating Apps

PERSONALS App Brings an Old School Dyke Dating Format Into a Hot New Future, Thanks Instagram

Your favorite queer Instagram dating account has changed its name to be more inclusive, is creating an app just for you, and is hosting a party in NYC to kickoff its crowdfunding efforts Wednesday night, June 13! Read our interview with creator Kelly Rakowski for all the hot details!

A. Tony Jerome June 12, 2018 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows What to Bring to the Orgy

Puppy pads are a secret orgy essential.

Ryan Yates June 10, 2018 3 Comments
Sex Toys

How to Buy a Strap-On Dildo for Lesbian Sex

Everything you need to know about choosing the right dildo for strap-on lesbian sex.

Ryan Yates June 5, 2018 10 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Great Sense Of Smell

Your sense of smell is linked to your sex life. Plus, why to listen to sex workers, how to get over your first love, why there’s no such thing as a summer vagina and more.

Ryan Yates June 3, 2018 4 Comments
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #26: Spring Cleaning Part 5

The last round of spring cleaning! Dance like no one’s watching!

Laneia June 2, 2018 26 Comments
Sex

Shibari 101: Hogtie

Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!

cee May 31, 2018 3 Comments
AF+ Sex

A+ Sex Diary: Fucking and Napping

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature for Silver & Gold members in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: A single, soft butch writer openly dating multiple people. Lesbian, 32, the American west.

Guest May 31, 2018 14 Comments
Sex Visual Art

25 NSFW Sex Collages Inspired By Your Queer Erotic Imaginations and/or Lesbian Sexual Fantasies

You came to “Sexing the Collage Cherry” and boi are your arms tired.

Riese May 31, 2018 18 Comments
Dating

Some Millennial Women Giving Up On Men, Dating Women Exclusively Because We Are Supreme Beings

It’s time for another round of “there’s never been a better time to date a woman”!

Riese May 30, 2018 38 Comments
Sex Toys Sponsored

10 Sex Toys to Help You Celebrate Masturbation Month All Year Long

Show yourself how much you mean to yourself, and then show yourself a great time with these ten toys.

Rachel May 30, 2018 8 Comments
Sex Toys

How To Buy A Strap-On Harness for Lesbian Sex

Everything you need to know about picking out a strap-on harness.

Ryan Yates May 29, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Muting Every Ex

Go mute your ex on instagram. Then come back for alien dildos, porn according to stock photos, the crossover of fashion and beauty and sex toys, at-home STI tests and more.

Ryan Yates May 27, 2018 3 Comments
Sex

Shibari 101: Leg Tie

Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!

cee May 24, 2018 10 Comments
Book Lists Breakups

9 Books That Got Us Through Breakups, We’ll Just Leave Them Right Here For You

Here, thought you might need this.

the team May 23, 2018 11 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews Sex

Juno Roche’s Queer Sex Is an Argument for Erotic Empowerment

Queer Sex, a collection of interviews with trans and non-binary folks on sex, love and intimacy, is a map to erotic empowerment. In this excerpt, author Juno Roche explores her fears, hopes and erotic potential.

Ryan Yates May 23, 2018 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Undersharing

Undersharing relationships on social media, STIs in the news, why getting tickled is the worst, why to see relationships as growth rather than destiny and more.

Ryan Yates May 20, 2018 1 Comment
Friendship

How to Make Adult Friends

“One thing most people don’t remember when approaching these kinds of situations is that the other person is likely terrified and nervous as well, worried about vulnerability and compatibility and wanting something too much.”

Molly Priddy May 18, 2018 26 Comments
Sex

Shibari 101: Basic Chest Harness

Here’s a tutorial for how to make a basic shibari chest harness!

cee May 17, 2018 10 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: Your Potential Throuple Turned Into a Couple and Someone’s Feeling Left Behind

“If y’all are close friends, you might want to make this sacrifice/compromise to preserve the friendship. Generally speaking, friends are more important than lovers, depending on how close of a friend they are.”

Abbie Jones May 15, 2018 2 Comments
Relationships

Six Queers on Polyamory and Identity

“Polyamory and queerness are pretty much inseparable for me in practice.”

Ryan Yates May 15, 2018 5 Comments
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