What Does It Mean to Be a “Top” or a “Dominant” in Lesbian Sex?
It’s time for part two of our series on what queer women and trans people are talking about when they talk about tops, bottoms and switches. Today we are taking your love ON TOP.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Like Sleepovers
Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.
Your Ex’s Bad Breakup Behavior, According to Their Sign
An unscientific exploration of the totally uncalled for post-breakup behavior your ex will definitely possibly exhibit based on their sign.
The Dental Dam Is Overdue for an Update, and Lorals Is Offering a Sexy Alternative
“One of the criticisms regularly lobbed against dental dams is the product’s perceived lack of sexiness, that stopping to grab one could kill the mood. Melanie Cristol was fed up. An accomplished consumer product and healthcare attorney at an international law firm based in Los Angeles, there wasn’t anything in her life that hinted she would be the reason for the next evolution in dental dams: Lorals.”
A+ Monday Roundtable: Dying a Million Lesbian Bed Deaths
Have you ever experienced bed death in your relationship? If you did move past it, how? Has bed death ever signaled the end of a relationship for you? Has a fear of bed death ever made an impact on your relationships? Do you think bed death isn’t a big deal and we should stop talking about it?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Way, Way, Way Too Hot
Stop repressing yourself. Also: Pornhub as Kinsey report, how to have a perfect breakup, how to have sex in nature and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Changing and Staying The Same
What to do with the instagram photos you have with your ex, what to do with the nudes you have of your ex, how to overcome anxiety for better queer sex and more.
You Need Help: What’s The Deal With Scissoring?
I researched scissoring for you. My Google history is awesome right now.
You Need Help: Is Love Really a Lie? Should You Even Try?
It’s a hard time to have hope, but friends, don’t give up.
55 Questions to Obsessively Ask Yourself After a Lesbian Breakup
26. Will I ever stop talking about this?
Your Hot Wet XXX Summer: 2018 Queer Porn Preview
All the glittery heart-driven DIY gay, lesbian, trans, and queer porn to watch right now.
Tops, Bottoms, Switches, What Do You Mean: Take Our Autostraddle Lesbian & Queer Sex Survey
What does it mean to be a top, bottom, or switch? What about dominant or submissive? We were gonna tell you but decided to ask you first.
Best Day Ever: 3 Lesbians Share How They Rocked a Suit to Their Weddings
Three brides who opted for suits explain how their choice of attire ensured that their wedding was the best day of their lives.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Unapologetic Lust
Squirting is real, it is possible to have a successful long-distance relationship, Fanny Hill’s unapologetic lust and more.
A+ Sex Diary: Masturbation Challenge Accepted
In this sex diary: a single femme sets herself a masturbation challenge. New sex toys, late-night porn, learning to feel free and more.
Queer Women and Leather: A Culture Clash That Has Nothing to Do With Veganism
An understanding of the leather community can help us co-exist, share spaces and celebrate all of the different ways to live queer lives.
Mutual Masturbation Is a Very Underrated Lesbian Sex Act and You Can Too
Mutual masturbation isn’t a sexual cop-out — it’s actually a truly fantastic sexual activity.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has New Rules
The new rules of dating? Don’t be an asshole. Plus: How to explore bisexuality, how to talk about good sex so you can have it, what the Desiree Conference cancellation means for sex workers and more.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The BJ Dildo
The BJ Dildo is designed for strap-on blow jobs. And I really, really wanted to love it.
How to Have Strap-On Lesbian Sex
You’ve got your harness. You’ve got a dildo to use with it. So what happens next?