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NSFW Sunday

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Ryan Yates December 31, 2017 14 Comments
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Laneia December 30, 2017 16 Comments
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Ryan Yates December 17, 2017 3 Comments
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Y’All Need Help #16: You Can Do Things About You!

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Laneia December 16, 2017 26 Comments
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How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)

It took be months to bring myself to ask the question I’d wanted to ask since coming out: How am I supposed to have sex if I hate my genitals?

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There was a time before time, in the yawning abyss of darkness and starfire that is the infinite and ever-expanding universe — a time before any of us had had lesbian sex. Most of us thought about it, though, or tried to imagine how it would work! We were not always correct.

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Ryan Yates December 10, 2017 9 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Winner

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Answers to all the yes/no questions you sent in since last Tuesday!

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