You Need Help: It’s Okay If You Haven’t Had Sex Yet
Don’t think of not having had sex as a disadvantage — think of it like a secret weapon.
NSFW Sunday Is Your Friend With Benefits ?
What makes friends with benefits actually work, drawing sex, responsive sex, don’t get married, and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Permission To Be Yourself
How to grow out your pubic hair, consider the assless panty, clean your sex toys, prevent summer UTIs, learn what your astrological sign says about what you’re like to date or dump, and more.
NSFW Sunday Is Obsessed With Dream Daddy
No surprises there. Plus: how to take perfect thirst-trap selfies, nipple piercing, my mind is blown by the idea of talking to someone on the actual phone, and more.
This Lesbian Made Her Own Dating Website and It Will Blow You Away
Heather says: “I am a good communicator, I have a lot to offer a potential partner/wife and I would love to share my amazing life with someone equally amazing, kind and compassionate.”
Queer Crip Love Fest: Love Is Showing Up
For the final installment of Queer Crip Love Fest, we turn the cute up to 11.
Lesbian Wedding Gallery: Alex Vega and Mary Tully Got Married in Costa Rica and It Was Real Cute!
This month in Costa Rica Autostraddle co-founder Alex Vega married 2013 Autostraddle Calendar Girl Mary Tully in Costa Rica and it was really cute.
Chelsea Poe’s “Inauthentic Masterpiece” and Earnest Integrity
I followed trans adult film-maker Chelsea Poe on a DIY world tour.
NSFW Sunday Is Persistent and Perplexing
Pay for your porn, chatbots and sex ed, organic lube is a scam, finding good casual sex, not taking rejection personally and more.
Y’All Need Help #6: You Can Still Trust Yourself
Realizing you’re bisexual after you’re married to a dude, coming to terms with this awful therapist, and never ever ever U-Hauling again. It’s time for some good old fashioned advice!
8 Chill Tips For When You Get Turned Down By A Straight Girl
Knowing better and doing better is a U-turn opening, and then there’s us smiling in our car, driving directly and proudly into the median.
What Actually Useful Things Did You Learn From Your Exes?
So grateful to our exes for opening our eyes to these tips and tricks and vital life skills. No really, we’re actually grateful. Sarcasm-free.
NSFW Sunday Is Sexting In Present Tense
Pairing pizza and masturbation, sexting in present tense, Gang-bang porn, millennial sex, songs for your summer break up and more.
Queer Crip Love Fest: Nana’s Stories and Ginger Loaf
“I think for many of us as disabled folk, we’ve come to terms with what we experience — but Nana’s experience of dementia is sort of different in that she doesn’t always know what’s happening or who and what she can trust. We can be empowered about disability at the same time as acknowledging that some of it really, seriously fucking hurts.”
NSFW Sunday Is Poetry and Perversion
Poetry, perversion, and erotic art; how to knot a cherry stem with your tongue; avoiding a buttplug nightmare; and more.
Sex Toy Review: The Tokidoki Unicorn Wand
It’s an electric vibrator shaped like a goddamn unicorn. And it’s my new favorite. As long as I don’t want to actually use it.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has Some Questions About The Babadong
Mostly: “Why???” Also, why waiting for a crush to text back is the worst, why going to weddings is also the worst, self-sabotage, thinking through different relationship styles and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Making Daddy Jokes
Whether gaydar is a thing, a new podcast that lets you listen in on couples therapy sessions, trans performers in mainstream porn, and more.
You Need Help: Grad School Killed Your Sex Life
Instead of thinking about how your sex life is dead, think about how it could be reborn.
The Top 5 Worst Songs I’ve Had Sex To
In the world of sex, choosing the right song is key. In my life, sometimes I choose songs that are just right, and sometimes a song gets associated with something especially heinous. These are their stories.