Today is all about crushes and what you should do about them: something, or nothing? Three questions, three answers. Only the strong survive. It takes two to tango. Love is a battlefield. Loose lips sink ships!
Literally why not.
“I’m a Scorpio, this is kind of what we… do.”
Examining relationships with your brain as well as your gut, why public queer porn screenings are powerful, why you have bad dates from apps, what makes a partner more likely to cheat on you and more.
Sure, it’s nice to have an extra person to help you carry boxes, but who will carry all of these feelings?
What lesbian hasn’t pretended to be a man to get married to the woman she’s already married to, just once?
Try something different when you masturbate later. Plus: how to have fat sex, first dates for function, being honest with yourself about your breakup and your boundaries, and more.
You ID’d as a lesbian and now you’re dating a dude and your friends are like WHAT. You’ve been single for nine years and wondering if it’s time to give up. You know of some queer people but aren’t sure if you should mention it. LET’S GO.
The case against toxic sex toys, keeping your friends after a break up, partners with anxiety, advice on dating apps, how to argue with a partner and more.
You might already know your Meyers-Briggs, your Hogwarts house and your astrology chart, but do you know your Enneagram type? You should find out!
I got married to Jenny Owen Youngs four years ago, nearly to the day, so that I could demand that she get in our marital bed to livestream for you about all that we learned about weddings (and ourselves) in the process. We talked attire, budgets, pushy parents, feminism (of course), and oh-so-much-more.
The sex everyone else is having revealed, when butterflies go bad, how to react to nudes, astrological compatibility, sex education as a basic human right and more.
A reader asked for some wedding looks for a person with an androgynous/femme aesthetic that they could wear to a straight family member’s wedding and I immediately asked to make a style guide because getting fancy for grandma while still feeling like myself is one of my favorite things to do.
Share your feelings with your partner, stud.
Turn your car into a sex bed on wheels, date ideas when you only have 30 minutes, a possible herpes vaccine, sharing secrets, and more.
“Sex positive” doesn’t mean you have to have sex.
Who gave you herpes, how to criticize a partner, being friends with exes, women designing sex toys and more.
In my day-to-day life my brattiness shows up as snark and a tendency to play devil’s advocate. It wasn’t until I entered the BDSM scene five years ago that I learned to express it in new and unexpected ways.
Cobbler-free tricks for softening your shoes, and saving your soles.
What does it mean to be queer and a sex worker at Skirt Club?