Monday Roundtable: The Wildest Things We Did For Love
“I essentially stole my brother’s car and drove it an hour away across state lines to go see my then-girlfriend for only 30 minutes while my parents thought I was at the movies”
NSFW Sunday Is Flirting Relentlessly
Why flirting is the best way to engage with your own desires; deconstructing myths about polyamory and about fat sex; seriously just stop instagram stalking your ex; and more.
“Do Fingers Count?” Vulvodynia, Medical Heteronormativity and Me
Doctors agreed about what kind of sex I should want to have, and how much pain and inconvenience I should be willing to endure to have it.
NSFW Sunday Is Closer To Fine
How to know when you’re ready to have sex, turning relationship crises into opportunities, going braless, heteronormativity in queer dynamics and more.
Y’All Need Help #13: You’re Gonna Make It Count
Two sisters have a crush on the same girl and it’s somehow not a movie, a parent in her mid-thirties is freshly divorced, and this person wants to be involved in her partner’s religion but isn’t sure how to make it happen. Let’s solve some problems!
The Day My Students Found My HER Profile
“I was terrified that I was going to receive a bunch of angry phone calls from parents or a visit from the overly religious principal as a result of word getting out that I didn’t fit the heteronormative cookie cutter mold that all of the other teachers at the school did.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Thinks You’re Handsome and Beautiful
Pot smokers have more sex, share sex content everywhere, when anti-depressants change your sex drive and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Never 100% Risk-Free
STI horror, turning an ex into a best friend, it’s okay to care about love if you care about love, when you can only orgasm when you have to pee and more.
Y’All Need Help #12: The Straight Girl Is Back
The Straight Girl is back, this friendship after the relationship is bleak, and a complicated wedding situation that you may or may not should go to. Get in here!
9 Hands-Free Sex Toys
Sex toys for when you want your hands free to do something else or someone else.
These Two Factors Make You More Likely To Be Into Non-Monogamy
More people than ever are in non-monogamous relationships, and new research sheds light on what factors make people — and specifically queer people — more likely to be into them.
You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants
Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.
NSFW Sunday Is Not Even A Little Bit Mysterious
Stop trying to be mysterious on dates. Plus: kinky porn and the Armory, muffing, Victorian smut, astrological signs and sex, when it might be okay to call that person your ex and more.
What You’re Flagging With Your La Croix Flavor
First it was for Midwestern moms, then it was for social influencers, then it was for everyone, and now it’s ours. La Croix is gay culture. (While we’re on the topic: Staying hydrated? Gay culture. Water? Gay culture in that it is life, which is something we are constantly giving other people. The ocean? Gay.)
You Need Help: What To Wear To A Kink Party
What to wear when you don’t want to channel Leather Mommi Barbie.
NSFW Sunday Is A Comet
How to grow out your pubic hair, how to give a lap dance, dating tips for trans women, why to start thinking of casual encounters like comets instead of flings and more.
Y’All Need Help #11: Being Ghosted Says More About the Ghoster and Less About the Ghostee, So
Staying friends with an ex, sick of all this fucking ghosting, and binding your boobs!! It’s a very special YNH today, told only through Instagram stories. Mmmhm.
The Gayest Friendship Fights I Had as a Closeted Baby Lesbian
“She wouldn’t let me sit next to her on the bus on the way to camp! For some reason, I had this elaborate Charlie’s Angels-esque fantasy about her where we kicked down the emergency door of the bus together and like idk did a heist or something?”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Anything You Want It To Be
Queer sex can be anything you want it to be. Plus, butch-femme sexual dynamics, the most compatible astrological signs, when emotional labor is too much and more.
A Playlist for When You Break Up In Autumn
As an 11-year relationship ended and the dust settled around me a couple weeks ago, I realized something: I needed music, I needed someone in my ear telling me everything I’m feeling and seeing wasn’t new and unknowable, that this was A Thing That Happens.