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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover

This week on NSFW Sunday: nudity, lingerie, and sex and happiness.

Ryan Yates November 25, 2012 16 Comments
First Person

Butch Please: Butch Gets Emotional

“I get angry at myself for having feelings this big to begin with, and then I wrestle for a few hours with the unique mixture of self-loathing, rage, and sobbing.”

Kate November 24, 2012 61 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

You Don’t Have To Come Out On Thanksgiving: On Going Home and Being Quiet

My grandma shoved 30 dollars in my hand once and told me, “Always tell the truth about who you are and know we’ll love you anyway.”

Carmen November 24, 2012 74 Comments
Geekery

Queer Your Tech With Fun: Read About Technology on Your Technology

“This is a post all about pulling amazing material from various places around the interwebs.”

Lana Turing November 24, 2012 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

The UN Includes “Gender Identity” in Resolution Condemning Discrimination-Based Killings

The Third Committee of the United Nations General Assembly (UNGA) made great strides in terms of LGBT rights when it voted to keep sexual orientation and include gender identity in a resolution condemning executions for reasons of discrimination.

Malaika November 23, 2012 10 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Stuffed

Secret sex tips, the dangers of food candles and topless protesting.

carrie November 23, 2012 15 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #51: More Casual Than Real Life

Topics include alcohol, Barack Obama’s twitter account, LIARS, Grace Paley, competitive eating, reading in bars, pretrial prison detention, Joan Didion and Magic The Gathering!

Riese November 23, 2012 13 Comments
Christmas

10 Black Friday Deals You Can Get In On Without Getting Off Your Ass

Skip Best Buy and relish in cool deals from retailers like ModCloth, OpenSky, Torrid, Babeland, Topman, Utrecht Art, Autostraddle and Love & Pride.

Riese November 23, 2012 7 Comments
Straddleverse

International Autostraddle Meetup Week Happened And This Is What It Looked Like

If we lived in the 90s I would’ve made a huge scrapbook with all the cute photos you sent in from International Autostraddle Meetup Week(s), but we live in 2012 so here’s a gallery of 300+ photos instead. FYI: You are all SO CUTE.

Vanessa November 23, 2012 70 Comments
First Person Holigays

I Hate Black Friday: This Queer Is Staying Home

The exploitation of love, anxiety and poverty are the driving force behind another made up moneymaking holiday. ‘Merica!

gabby November 23, 2012 48 Comments
Politics + Activism

French Leader Offends Gays as He Attempts to Placate the Political Right

French President François Hollande spoke to a congregation of mayors on Tuesday, leaving many incensed. Instead of blaming others for their misinterpretation, Hollande acts like a human being and owns up to his mistake.

Kristen November 22, 2012 15 Comments
Politics + Activism

Lisa Biron, Anti-Gay Lawyer, Charged With A Whole Slew Of Sex Crimes

“Transportation with intent to engage in criminal sexual activity, possession of child pornography, and five counts of sexual exploitation of children.” YIKES.

Gabrielle Korn November 22, 2012 20 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: A Convenient Reason to Hide from Your Family

The world’s largest pile of leaves, Sandra Bullock and Melissa McCarthy team up for “The Heat”, and impressive sports feats by dudes you’ve never heard of.

Brittani November 22, 2012 10 Comments
First Person Thanksgiving

The Secret Diary of a Turkey-Fister

“As it turned out, stuffing turkeys on the graveyard shift was a bonding experience that could not be transcended.”

Crystal November 22, 2012 27 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read a F*cking Book: Cristy C. Road’s “Spit and Passion”

A memoir by a queer Latina punk about how her favorite band saved her from the pain of being a total weirdo.

Gabrielle Korn November 22, 2012 6 Comments
Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving OPEN THREAD: Feel And Eat Your Heart Out

I mean, not literally. But tell us about your heart and tell us about what you’re eating, you know?

the team November 22, 2012 119 Comments
Thanksgiving

Please Don’t Volunteer On Thanksgiving: A Former Shelter Worker Tells All

“On the day before Thanksgiving, the day after and the 362 other days of the year (including Christmas) hardly any volunteers, well known or not, showed up to help.”

Ren November 21, 2012 81 Comments
Queer Fashion

My Visceral Gender Presentation Feelings-Fest About Casey Legler, A Female Male Model

Have you ever wanted to fuck someone and look like them at the same time? That’s how I feel about Casey Legler, a person who identifies as female but who works as a model in the men’s fashion world. Commence feelings bomb.

A.E. Osworth November 21, 2012 45 Comments
Food Lists Thanksgiving

19 Horrifying Thanksgiving Dinner Ideas From Vintage Food Ads

It wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without Frozen Jellied Turkey Vegetable Salad!

Riese November 21, 2012 56 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Get Baked: Thanksvegan Extravaganza

This year we decided to skip the Tofurkey and try a few new things, with delicious results.

Stef November 21, 2012 14 Comments
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