“Asexual lesbian with a nearly nonexistant sex drive here. All I hear is that the expected norm in lesbian relationships is hours and hours of sex at a time. PLEASE tell me this is true for only 9/10 non-ace lesbians (or less).”
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Kristen Arnett discuss the sliding scale of gender expression and how a femme wife is like having an IRL Barbie.
From Kermit’s drag persona Kermeena to nonbinary icon Gonzo, The Muppets have always been queer on-screen and among their fans.
Reality TV dating shows tend to have heterosexuality deep in their DNA, but over the years, some have emerged with proud gay genes and to focus on lesbian, queer and bisexual women and non-binary people. Scratch that Ultimatum itch.
This is an episode of television that earns its trigger warnings — due to the lived experiences of the kings rather than their horror craft.
Happy International Kissing Day! Celebrate by revisiting the best lesbian movie make outs of all time!
It’s summertime, and we’re hot hot hot.
And across, too!
She’s dating your bestie, still flirts with you, and you’re all three moving in together?! Also, a reader wonders if she’s really a lesbian if all of her exes came out as trans men.
“The ‘hot’ in Hot Girls with Balls is that it’s a given our protagonists are extremely beautiful.”
We believe that Hungary represents the kind of country Trump and his allies want the United States to become.
Who knew there could be this much drama about………brussels sprouts?
1. I’m so much cooler these days. Literally and figuratively.
We got the ‘To L and Back’ band back together to discuss the messy glory of ‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’ — the pain, the glory, the tongue kissing in sushi restaurants and why Haley does NOT in fact owe Dayna an apology.
The queerness of Pacino’s filmography is a reminder. While the media and your worst uncle claim the newness of queer and trans people, the truth is we have always been here. This cinema belongs to us as much as it does any straight film bro.
Who walks away engaged? Who is going no contact with their trial partners? Who is breaking up?
Plus, Sarah Paulson in a big suit and more important celesbian updates.
Queer Floridian Juan Barquin talks to fellow queer Floridian Sasha Wortzel about her new documentary River of Grass and the beauty of the Everglades.
And we’ve both got a crush on Regina George.
Pride month may be over, but we read queer all year, and these are our top picks for new LGBTQ+ books coming out July 2025.