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Sex

View From The Top: Playing Through Depression

It’s almost impossible to master while grieving. When that grief turns into a depression, is it even M/s anymore?

Sinclair Sexsmith August 30, 2016 11 Comments
AF+

20 Excerpts from Kayla’s Elementary School Journals, 1998-2003

With illustrations!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 30, 2016 27 Comments
Geekery

5 Portable Card Games to Play Anywhere, Anytime

My favorite card games to play with queers in parks and bars in honor of the brand new Oregon Trail card game.

A.E. Osworth August 30, 2016 26 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics Retrospective: The Top 10 Drawn To Comics From the First 3 Years

I can’t believe I’ve written around 150 of these????

Mey August 30, 2016 61 Comments
Queer Pregnancy

Countdown to Baby T. Rex: The Seven Stages of Waiting (41 Weeks)

Our Leo/Virgo cusp baby is definitely moving into Virgo territory.

KaeLyn August 29, 2016 51 Comments
Book Lists

Fall 2016 Book Preview: 48 Queer and Feminist Books To Add To Your Reading List

Welcome to your list of queer and/or feminist books coming out in fall 2016. New Zadie Smith, Ivan Coyote, Anne Carson, Margaret Atwood, Bae Suah and more.

Ryan Yates August 29, 2016 28 Comments
Relationships

Love Letters Across the Atlantic: How Distance Changes Your Relationship

“To date long distance then live with the other in person is to be in two versions of the same relationship. One wishes desperately for the future and is fueled by daydreams of the past; the other tries to make every waking moment something special and ignores the fact that time is passing, whether we like it or not.”

Tierney Nash August 29, 2016 11 Comments
Movie Reviews

Clea DuVall’s “The Intervention” Is Fun But Flawed (And Super White)

It’s wonderful to see two queer women dealing with complex and honest relationship problems that are treated with the same nuance and depth as those of the straight couples on screen, but DuVall never quite manages to step out of the shadow of The Big Chill.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 29, 2016 8 Comments
Queer Fashion

Stylish-of-Center: Back to School Tomboy Butch Looks for the Fashionably On Time

One morning I woke up and realized I was completely unsatisfied with (almost) my entire closet, and have since been on a journey to find my style-of-center, mixing Goodwill finds with brand-name bits from the sale rack.

Abby August 29, 2016 42 Comments
Food Lists

I Promise You’re On the Right Side of History: 23 Things to Eat if You Do Like Potatoes

I’m from Idaho and in Idaho we learn that you can survive on just potatoes and butter? All the nutrients you need are in potatoes except for a couple, which are all in butter. Is that true?

Mey August 29, 2016 31 Comments
Food Lists

I Promise You’re Not the Only One: 23 Things to Eat if You Don’t Like Potatoes

Every time they offer me a potato chip or french fry, it’s like a well-meaning relative insisting that “you just haven’t met the right guy yet.” Sorry, Aunt Helen, but it’s not a matter of the right guy or the right potato.

Carrie August 29, 2016 27 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Celebrates Bea Arthur’s LGBT Shelter And Pride Month Forever

Bless Bea Arthur, bless lesbian farmers, bless pride, bless BeLL, bless pro-LGBT lawmakers, BLESS IT ALL.

Carmen August 28, 2016 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking Politics And Pleasure

Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.

Ryan Yates August 28, 2016 10 Comments
Geekery

5 More Apps To Make You Better At Money

These apps will make managing money less scary and stressful. Plus a bonus budgeting podcast by Gaby Dunn!

A.E. Osworth August 27, 2016 15 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Identity

What about you? How do you identify?

Archie August 27, 2016 97 Comments
Politics + Activism

News Fix: A French Court Gets Rid of Burkini Bans

A French court says bye bye to burkini bans, Purvi Patel could be released as early as next month, two Orlando hospitals will cover medical bills of Pulse shooting victims and their families, a federal judge ok’s a trans employee’s firing and more news.

Yvonne August 26, 2016 9 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards is Surrounded by Boxes, Considers Building a Fort

Welcome, scholars!

Bren August 26, 2016 18 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: So Like Did You Miss Me Or What

Please spill all of the piping hot tea you’ve gotta spill. Please feel free to open the lid on the salt shaker and just let it loose. I want the hot goss, honestly. Just get in here and TELL ME YOUR LIFE.

Carmen August 26, 2016 215 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #209: Take Your Ghastly Revolutionary Ideas Out To The Garden

Topics include Munchausen by proxy and murder, Shop Jeen, every restaurant in Epcot Center, Joanne the Scammer, housing segregation, little people in Hollywood and so much more!

Riese August 26, 2016 6 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: What To Do About the Jerk in Your Friend Group

What’s a compassionate queer to do when an insecure friend starts to make the whole group miserable?

Adrian August 26, 2016 30 Comments
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