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AUTOSTRADDLE MERCH SALE EXTRAVAGANZA 20% OFF EVERYTHING POST-HOLIDAZE

Hey! We’re doing that thing we do and you should get a piece!

Riese December 26, 2014 14 Comments
Holigays

#HappyHoligays Hall of Fame: Instagram, Tumblr, and Twitter Posts That Made Our Season Bright

We asked y’all to use the hashtag #HappyHoligays on social media this season, and boy, did you ever!

Carmen December 25, 2014 17 Comments
Christmas Jewish Holidays

Jewish Christmases I Have Known

What do you do when the world gives you a mandatory day off, when nothing is open except Chinese restaurants and movie theatres?

Stef December 25, 2014 20 Comments
Holigays

VIDEO: Franchesca Ramsey’s Comebacks Will Make Your Racist Relatives STFU This Holigay Season

Now pass the tofurkey and shut the fuck up, uncle Ned!

Carmen December 25, 2014 5 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #62: Piles and Piles of Pages

Marginalia, feminist shelfies, expanding the queer canon, 2014 in queer diversity in YA and more.

Ryan Yates December 25, 2014 2 Comments
AF+ Christmas

A+ VIDEO: “All We Want For Christmas Is You” Lip Sync Dance Party

If you thought all we could do was sit in our chairs and type words on a screen, prepare to have your mind blown!

Riese December 25, 2014 50 Comments
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A+ Podcast Episode One: December 2014

It’s finally here! Your very own A+ podcast! Sit back and enjoy.

Laneia December 24, 2014 32 Comments
Holigays

OPEN THREAD: All I Want for Christmakwanzakah is You, So Get In Here

This is a safe and special place for you to use as refuge from your family, a recipe depository from your holigay feasts, and also a friend-making machine.

Carmen December 24, 2014 193 Comments
Christmas Playlists

Holigay Playlist: Having a Blue Christmas

The song Blue Christmas is not on this playlist, but it’s still perfect for melancholy holigay moments.

Carmen December 24, 2014 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

FDA Will Allow Gay Men to Donate Blood Under Amended Restrictions

After weeks of discussion on the subject, the agency has finally announced it will replace the current lifetime ban with a one-year restriction period for men who sleep with men.

Kaitlyn December 23, 2014 22 Comments
TV Lists

Here’s 35 LGBTQ Female TV Characters of Color Who Made 2014 A Very Queer Year

There were more queer female characters of color on TV in 2014 than the total number of queer female characters on TV, period, five years ago.

Heather Hogan December 23, 2014 23 Comments
TV Reviews

“Legend of Korra”‘s Final Scene Wasn’t Enough and Why We Must Demand More

I’m damn furious that six years ago, Nickelodeon was allowed to show a 12-year-old boy kissing a 14-year-old girl and saying “I love you,” but now, they refuse to show a 21-year-old woman do either of those things with her 22-year-old female partner.

Mey December 23, 2014 60 Comments
Queer Fashion

Going to an Outdoor Semi-Formal Event in the F*cking Snow

As for keeping your hands warm, the best way to go is a faux fur muff. I really don’t understand why people don’t still wear muffs all the time. They’re great! They double as a great way to keep your hands nice and cozy and an excuse to make lesbian sex jokes.

Mey December 23, 2014 21 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Lumberjanes #9 Has Spookiness to the Max!

If you were on the fence about buying it, the credits page calls the issue “a flippin’ sweet Susan B. Anth-ology.”

Mey December 23, 2014 2 Comments
Gender

On The Silencing of Trans Women of Color: A Response to Trans Glamour vs. Trans Activism

“As a white woman, you may not understand this but the simple act of getting up and being in the public eye and proclaiming your transness unapologetically is an act of revolution for every trans person of color, and in that right, they are doing the work.”

L'lerrét Jazelle Ailith December 22, 2014 26 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue Six, December 2014

This week in The A+ Insider, we re-cast Peter Pan starring Alex Vega, Laneia thinks you need a walk, we remember the year that was, and everybody stocks up on Endure By Rachel Kincaid.

the team December 22, 2014 33 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Salem Episodes 7 and 8 Recap: F*ck Colonialism

Maybe girl-on-girl action is like the antenna that boosts magical Wi-Fi. (That was an alcohol-inspired thought.)

Loraine December 22, 2014 4 Comments
Food Lists

27 Foods You Can Make in the Microwave

If it requires a stove, oven or toaster, you won’t find it here.

Kaitlyn December 22, 2014 25 Comments
Christmas Recipes

Get Baked: Homemade Gingerbread for all Your Festive Needs

“At some point, probably around the time I became a surly teenager and wanted something of my very own to craft and control and create, I decided to start making gingerbread too. At first this was just something I did alone, but gradually my younger brother began helping me, then my older brother, and it kind of became a tradition by accident.”

Hattie December 22, 2014 13 Comments
Queer Fashion Shopping

Brrr It’s Cold Out There: It’s Time To Get You Some Boots

As far as winter footwear is concerned you have two choices: fashion or function. That doesn’t mean your choices are “look cute and freeze” or “stay dry and sacrificing lookin’ winsome.” Lovely human, you’ve got options.

Lydia O December 22, 2014 24 Comments
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