• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Baby Steps
    • Our Sex/Life
    • The Parlour
    • Go Long
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • S L I C K Erotica
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Baby Steps
    • Our Sex/Life
    • The Parlour
    • Go Long
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • S L I C K Erotica
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
photo 1: album artwork for the musical artist Oompa, featuring Black hands wearing a gold watch against a blue sky and colorful nails and gold rings that spell out UNBOTHERED. photo 2: album sartwork that reads QUARTZ in pink letters and features four cartoon people in black and white. photo 3: album artwork featuring the word LOST in all caps with a person standing in a field. photo 4: album artwork for FAINT SHAPE, featuring pink flowers against a beige background.
Music

Underrated Queer Artists Who Should Be in Your Rotation

All of the artists on this playlist have less than 10,000 monthly listeners, with many having less than 100 in total.

danijanae March 28, 2023 9 Comments
two women on exercise bikes screaming. one has a ponytail and one has an undercut
Playlists

Playlist: Welcome to My Dyke SoulCycle Class

Lifting weights half-naked in my apartment? That calls for 190 to 200 BPM house and pop music only.

Julie Gentile March 24, 2023 4 Comments
The four Death Cab for Cutie albums: we have the facts and we’re voting yes, The Photo Album, Transatlanticism, and Plans
Music

Death Cab for Cutie Songs I’ve Cried To, Ranked

Ranking from worst to best? No. Ranking by lesbian energy? Perhaps but not quite. Ranking by the level of despair I felt when I listened? Absolutely.

danijanae March 22, 2023 19 Comments
a woman with curl hair and bright red lipstick and a plaid dress over a white tee sings karaoke with a woman with a shaved head in a white tee who is holding the mic
Comedy Music

Sorry Straights, These Karaoke Songs Belong to the Lesbians

Look, who else is holding on to relationships for too long in the way that we queers are? Who else “got somebody here but I want you” the way we do?

Analyssa March 20, 2023 24 Comments
Jasmin Savoy Brown kisses Lucy Dacus who is wearing a witch costume in the "Night Shift" music video.
Music

Lucy Dacus, Jane Schoenbrun Talk Making Joyful Queer Music Video for “Night Shift” Starring Jasmin Savoy Brown

The video also stars author Carmen Maria Machado and E.R. Fightmaster.

danijanae March 14, 2023 5 Comments
a black and white photo of a woman smoking a cigarette in a robe on a couch
Playlists

Playlist: Crying in a Caftan, Smoking a Virginia Slim

Disclaimer, no, I don’t own a caftan. Yes, I wish I did.

Julie Gentile February 24, 2023 2 Comments
The Indigo Girls perform in a cramped library space with many books. They seem happy while singing.
Music Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Have You Seen the Indigo Girls Tiny Desk Concert Yet?

12 global queer art shows worth traveling for, how to split finances in a poly throuple, and considering the gap between how old you actually are verses how old you *think* you are.

Carmen Phillips February 23, 2023 5 Comments
The cover of Janelle Monae's "Float" shows them in the middle of an orange old school record. The cover is repeated twice in this image.
Music

Janelle Monáe’s New Single “Float” Is Here, The Reign of Galaxy Pansexuals Starts Immediately

“Listen lil’ mama, you like shibari? Watch while I show you the ropes.”

Carmen Phillips February 16, 2023 8 Comments
Three album covers (The National's High Violet, Erkyah Badu's New Amerikyah, and Hanna) are placed in front of a solid royal purple background
First Person Music

Three Songs for Three Heartbreaks

I was in love, then I wasn’t. One night, after a big fight. I got on my bike to make the short trek home and a song came to me.

danijanae February 15, 2023 6 Comments
A woman wades in shallow water with a pink and blue sky above her on an album cover that also says: Black Belt Eagle Scout, The Land The Water The Sky on it
Music

Queer Indigenous Musician Black Belt Eagle Scout Talks “The Land, The Water, The Sky”

If you’ve never listened to Black Belt Eagle Scout before, then 1. you should, and 2. you should be prepared for the sort of rapturous experience of listening to each song.

danijanae February 13, 2023 6 Comments
Lizzo and Harry Styles perform at Coachella in pink fluffy coats and pink pants
Music

Queer Fans Coming Out at Harry Styles Shows Makes for a Special Space

I have attended my fair share of Harry Styles concerts (12 and counting!) and of the last eight, I think I’ve witnessed at least three people come out.

Sa'iyda Shabazz January 27, 2023 5 Comments
A black cat against a black ground is hissing. The image has been distorted and the colors edited to create a trippy tripling effect.
Playlists

Playlist: Queer as in F*CK YOU

The feeling of wanting to book a rage room and smash a lot of shit, or journal so hard you conquer weeks of pent up emotions in one go? That’s this playlist.

Julie Gentile January 19, 2023 4 Comments
Fletcher and her gal pal make out in the Better Version video
Music

Fletcher and Kelsea Ballerini Become Better, Queerer Selves in Meet-Cute Music Video

Well, Fletcher sure is determined to make this the queerest year ever.

Heather Hogan January 6, 2023 14 Comments
Best Queer Albums 2022. Autostraddle Year End Lists. The albums CLEARING by Hyd, MUNA by Muna, Black Girl Magic by Honey Dijon, and Nymph by Shygirl.
Music

Eight of the Best Queer Albums of 2022

I’ve always used music as a way to relate to others.

Julie Gentile December 27, 2022 4 Comments
A woman wearing red over-the-head headphones with her eyes closed
First Person Music

What My Spotify Wrapped Should Have Said

I’ve learned that a ranked list of songs can be just as powerful as an end-of-year journal entry. 

Em Win December 26, 2022 6 Comments
Two women huddled for warmth on the steps of a cabin, draped in blankets and sipping out of mugs
Playlists

Swaddle Yourself in This Queer Playlist for Cuffing Season

This playlist walks the line between the fun, playful crush energy that comes with any new relationship, and the contemplative mood that comes when conversations stop being about how cute you are and instead revolve around if you’ve also decided to take it more seriously.

Julie Gentile December 17, 2022 3 Comments
The following artists feature in the best queer music 2022 singles list: Kehlani, Kelela, MUNA, Reyna Tropical, Syd, Black Belt Eagle Scout, Brandi Carlile, and Destin Conrad
Music

23 of the Best Songs by Queer Artists in 2022

Some of these are technically not lead singles from the albums they came from, but songs that I felt were just as good as those that got more shine.

danijanae December 16, 2022 11 Comments
A collage of six album covers, from left to right and top to bottom: Fields by Devonté Hynes and Third Coast Percussion, Going Under OST by feasley, Only Diamonds Cut Diamonds by Vegyn, Mother Earth’s Plantasia by Mort Garson, Lester Young With The Oscar Peterson Trio by Lester Young and Oscar Peterson Trio, and Con Todo El Mundo by Khruangbin
Music

6 Albums to Help You Get Through the Work Day

Before we can indulge in all of life’s greatest holiday pleasures — sleeping in and boozed-up eggnog with a hefty side of Lactaid — we’ll have to dredge through the last obligations of work.

Julie Gentile November 28, 2022 8 Comments
A group of friends dine around a table for Thanksgiving
Playlists Thanksgiving

Playlist: Songs for Vibing with Your Found Family on Thanksgiving

Here’s about seven hours of songs to play behind conversations and to fill the comforting silence of breaking bread over a tofurkey, ham, or whatever you like to stuff your face with.

Julie Gentile November 24, 2022 1 Comment
A collage that features the following album covers. Top, left to right: Prince "Do Me, Baby," Kelela "S.O.S," Meshell Ndegeocello "Devil's Halo." Bottom, left to right: Victoria Monet, "Jaguar," Miguel "Wildheart," and Rihanna "Anti."
Music

Exploring the Horniest Songs Ever Written

Join me on this wet ride to Horny Jail.

danijanae November 12, 2022 45 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 … 68 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • Say My Name, Mey’s My Name
  • Mondo Fetiche Doesn’t See Why Queer Porn Can’t Also Be Arthouse Cinema
  • The Pandemic is Trauma for Trans Disabled People

Latest Comments

  • King Ph We Loved boygenius Because of How They Loved Each Other "Awesome read—very well written and helpful. If you’re interested, I’ve been working on some related content over at King Ph.…"

  • dabang game login The WNBA’s All-Time Leading Scorer Diana Taurasi Has Retired "What an incredible journey Diana Taurasi has had! Her impact on the game and her ability to inspire both fans…"

  • Looking for spoilers pls TIFF 2025: ‘Hedda’ Brings the Dyke Drama to Ibsen "Does it have the same ending as the play? I love that ending so much so I want to temper…"

  • revedeshautbois ‘Gen V’ Returns With Queer Kisses, New Mysteries, and Utter Chaos "So excited that this show is back!"

Latest Posts

  • What Does Online Sex Work Look Like Behind the Camera?
  • Caleb Hearon Mixes Humor and Heartbreak in New Comedy Special
  • Help I Have a Crush On My Ex-Boyfriend’s Sister
  • No Filter: Tessa Thompson Back on IG? Must Be Movie Promo Season
  • ‘Gen V’ Returns With Queer Kisses, New Mysteries, and Utter Chaos

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA