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stills from music videos for the following best queer songs of 2023: "Famous Last Words" by Ethel Cain "thicc" by Shygirl “Float” by Janelle Monáe "alone" by WILLOW “What It Is (Block Boy)" by Doechii "Prescription" by Remi Wolf "Carpenter" by Vagabon "Tiny Garden" by Jamila Woods "no fun / party" by Kara Jackson "Will Anybody Ever Love Me?" by Sufjan Stevens "Gimme A Chance" by Dreamer Isioma "Happy Ending" by Kelela "On My Mama" by Victoria Monet "Damn Gloves" by Serpentwithfeet "sulky baby" by Yuele "Needs" by Tinashe
Music

24 of the Best Songs by Queer Artists in 2023

At a time when rights for marginalized people have never been more perilous, consuming art made by queer and trans people feels particularly necessary and sacred.

Mary Retta December 8, 2023 7 Comments
Gaylor gift guide: Sparkly lavender background with a Certified Gaylor sticker, a tumbler, a shirt, and a phone case.
Holigays Music

A Holiday Gift Guide For Your Favorite Gaylor

Whether you’re a general Gaylor, a Swiftgron shipper (hello my people), or a Kaylor, there’s something for you here.

Sa'iyda Shabazz December 6, 2023 8 Comments
Janelle Monáe accepts the Spirit of Soul award at the 2023 Soul Train Awards, the award (previously named "Lady of Soul") was changed in their honor.
Music

Soul Train Awards Reject the Cis-Tem, Rename Gendered Award for Janelle Monáe

And ICYMI, they also won a top-off with Usher in Vegas right before Thanksgiving. Big week for Janelle Monáe.

Carmen Phillips November 27, 2023 6 Comments
2024 Grammy Nominations: Collage of Janelle Monáe, boygenius, and Victoria Monét.
Music

Grammy Nominations 2024: Janelle Monáe, boygenius, and Victoria Monét Are Queering Awards Season

The 2024 Grammy nominations were announced this morning at 8am PST and let me tell you they are GAY GAY GAY. 

Drew Burnett Gregory November 10, 2023 4 Comments
A photo of E.R. Fightmaster at the Queerties. They're wearing a button up black shirt and a gold chain.
Music

E.R. Fightmaster on Loving Femmes, James Bond, and Their New EP “Violence”

“I think the thing that’s hot about transmasc people is there’s no encouragement to be transmasc. In order to have our identity, we have to be as in touch with our real selves as possible.”

Motti November 6, 2023 8 Comments
Music

Britney Spears Music Videos, Ranked By Homoeroticism

“Britney is very often being homo-erotic with herself but you know what? It’s allowed. Be Free.”

Riese October 25, 2023 4 Comments
A collage of Victoria Monet dancing in a TikTok video
Music

Victoria Monét Spent the Weekend Singing a Love Letter About Strap-Ons, How Bout You?

I don’t know what else it’s going to take to convince you that no one’s writing about queer sex like Victoria Monét, but hopefully “Imma need more than a handshake, baby go and get that strap” is a start.

Carmen Phillips October 23, 2023 4 Comments
Black Polish dressed in mummy chic looking into the camera as they sing.
Music

Have a Heartbreak Halloween With Nonbinary Artist Black Polish’s New Song “Graves”

This video has everything you could want from October: dripping blood, dragging dead bodies, and peak mummy fashion.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 18, 2023 1 Comment
boygenius onstage at MSG
Music

I Saw MUNA and boygenius and All I Got Was a Surge of Queer Joy

I finally understood that sacred feeling one can get in a religious service.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan October 13, 2023 6 Comments
in black and white, the members of NSYNC backstage at the VMA awards 2023
First Person Music

On *NSYNC and Being a Lesbian Who Loves Boy Bands

If you had to make me into a pie chart, being queer and loving *NSYNC are basically the same size.

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 6, 2023 9 Comments
Janelle Monáe performs at The Anthem in Washington, D.C. on her "Age of Pleasure" tour.
Music

Two Queer Women Discuss Their Free-Ass Time At Janelle Monáe’s Age of Pleasure Tour

Sexual freedom can also just be about freedom in general, at least for one night, in a special space.

Drew Burnett Gregory and Carmen Phillips
September 29, 2023 2 Comments
Chappell Roan dressed like a prom queen on the album cover for The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess
Music

Chappell Roan’s Debut Album Is the Anthem for Us Midwestern Queers

Every single song on this album makes me want to throw on a puffy prom dress and hysterically dance around.

Em Win September 26, 2023 6 Comments
Janelle Monae collaged in front of fashionable concert goers in front of a sunset gradient.
Music Queer Fashion

What Are We Wearing to the Janelle Monaé Concert, Bestie?

Age of Pleasure has the aesthetics of summer heat and sweaty queer bodies, but the tour covers September and October! And “fall queer beach party” aesthetic is just so f*cking hard!

Carmen Phillips September 15, 2023 6 Comments
Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion are in red bathing suits with their legs interlocked together on a pool deck.
Music

Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion Are Scissoring

Cardi and Meg sent a message in their new “Bongos” music video. And that message was y’all keep bi erasing us if you want, but ✂️ ✂️

Carmen Phillips September 8, 2023 20 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Music

Every Celebrity You Know Went to Beyoncé’s Birthday Show, Here’s All the Gays

A fellow earth sign herself, Kehlani easily wins “top” prize (see what I did there?) for most thorough recap of the night.

Carmen Phillips September 5, 2023 8 Comments
Victoria Monét's Jaguar II album cover, featuring Monét coming out of inky black water.
Music

Victoria Monét’s “Jaguar II” Is Fighting for Queer R&B’s Life

Very few have clawed their way to the status of being R&B’s up and coming It Girl, let alone while crooning about a preference for short fingernails or cracking a joke that “it’s a bisexual blunt, it can go both ways.”

Carmen Phillips September 1, 2023 2 Comments
two blonde women enjoy a lollipop together
Music

Cara Delevingne Directs Reneé Rapp Music Video About Meeting Your Clone at a Club and Then Making Out

Rapp’s debut album Snow Angel is out now!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 18, 2023 2 Comments
A collage of women in hip hop, outlined in yellow, in front of a pile of mixtapes. Left to right: Lauryn Hill, Cardi B, Young M.A., Queen Latifah, Nicki Minaj, Big Freeda, Missy Elliott, Megan thee Stallion, Chika, Roxane Shante, Da Brat, and Lil Kim
Playlists

Playlist: We Run This, 50 Years of Women in Hip-Hop

Because what’s a celebration of women’s contributions to 50 years of hip-hop without a playlist?

Natalie August 17, 2023 5 Comments
Four screenshots of Keke Palmer in Usher's "Boyfriend" music video, she's dancing in white boxers and a white sport bra in each of them.
Music

Keke Palmer Dances in Boxers in Usher’s “Boyfriend” Video, a Well Timed Clapback to Her Ex

You don’t have to scratch especially deep beneath the surface for a queer line reading of Keke Palmer rolling around in a pair of boxers while crooning that someone’s girlfriend is going to be thinking about her at night.

Carmen Phillips August 16, 2023 11 Comments
Victoria Monet in the "On My Mama" video in two side-by-side images: on the left, in a red bra and baseball cap, with baggy pants, on the right in an oversized white tee and green do-rag.
Music

Bisexual R&B Star Victoria Monét Is Giving Sexy Tomboy in New Music Video

If you just so happen to love it when queer girls dress up like a ’00s era Ciara or Beyoncé music video, “On My Mama” was made for you.

Carmen Phillips August 15, 2023 6 Comments
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