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Music

Britney Spears Music Videos, Ranked By Homoeroticism

“Britney is very often being homo-erotic with herself but you know what? It’s allowed. Be Free.”

Riese October 25, 2023 4 Comments
A collage of Victoria Monet dancing in a TikTok video
Music

Victoria Monét Spent the Weekend Singing a Love Letter About Strap-Ons, How Bout You?

I don’t know what else it’s going to take to convince you that no one’s writing about queer sex like Victoria Monét, but hopefully “Imma need more than a handshake, baby go and get that strap” is a start.

Carmen Phillips October 23, 2023 4 Comments
Black Polish dressed in mummy chic looking into the camera as they sing.
Music

Have a Heartbreak Halloween With Nonbinary Artist Black Polish’s New Song “Graves”

This video has everything you could want from October: dripping blood, dragging dead bodies, and peak mummy fashion.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 18, 2023 1 Comment
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Music

I Saw MUNA and boygenius and All I Got Was a Surge of Queer Joy

I finally understood that sacred feeling one can get in a religious service.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan October 13, 2023 6 Comments
in black and white, the members of NSYNC backstage at the VMA awards 2023
First Person Music

On *NSYNC and Being a Lesbian Who Loves Boy Bands

If you had to make me into a pie chart, being queer and loving *NSYNC are basically the same size.

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 6, 2023 9 Comments
Janelle Monáe performs at The Anthem in Washington, D.C. on her "Age of Pleasure" tour.
Music

Two Queer Women Discuss Their Free-Ass Time At Janelle Monáe’s Age of Pleasure Tour

Sexual freedom can also just be about freedom in general, at least for one night, in a special space.

Drew Burnett Gregory and Carmen Phillips
September 29, 2023 2 Comments
Chappell Roan dressed like a prom queen on the album cover for The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess
Music

Chappell Roan’s Debut Album Is the Anthem for Us Midwestern Queers

Every single song on this album makes me want to throw on a puffy prom dress and hysterically dance around.

Em Win September 26, 2023 6 Comments
Janelle Monae collaged in front of fashionable concert goers in front of a sunset gradient.
Music Queer Fashion

What Are We Wearing to the Janelle Monaé Concert, Bestie?

Age of Pleasure has the aesthetics of summer heat and sweaty queer bodies, but the tour covers September and October! And “fall queer beach party” aesthetic is just so f*cking hard!

Carmen Phillips September 15, 2023 6 Comments
Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion are in red bathing suits with their legs interlocked together on a pool deck.
Music

Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion Are Scissoring

Cardi and Meg sent a message in their new “Bongos” music video. And that message was y’all keep bi erasing us if you want, but ✂️ ✂️

Carmen Phillips September 8, 2023 18 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Music

Every Celebrity You Know Went to Beyoncé’s Birthday Show, Here’s All the Gays

A fellow earth sign herself, Kehlani easily wins “top” prize (see what I did there?) for most thorough recap of the night.

Carmen Phillips September 5, 2023 8 Comments
Victoria Monét's Jaguar II album cover, featuring Monét coming out of inky black water.
Music

Victoria Monét’s “Jaguar II” Is Fighting for Queer R&B’s Life

Very few have clawed their way to the status of being R&B’s up and coming It Girl, let alone while crooning about a preference for short fingernails or cracking a joke that “it’s a bisexual blunt, it can go both ways.”

Carmen Phillips September 1, 2023 2 Comments
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Music

Cara Delevingne Directs Reneé Rapp Music Video About Meeting Your Clone at a Club and Then Making Out

Rapp’s debut album Snow Angel is out now!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 18, 2023 2 Comments
A collage of women in hip hop, outlined in yellow, in front of a pile of mixtapes. Left to right: Lauryn Hill, Cardi B, Young M.A., Queen Latifah, Nicki Minaj, Big Freeda, Missy Elliott, Megan thee Stallion, Chika, Roxane Shante, Da Brat, and Lil Kim
Playlists

Playlist: We Run This, 50 Years of Women in Hip-Hop

Because what’s a celebration of women’s contributions to 50 years of hip-hop without a playlist?

Natalie August 17, 2023 5 Comments
Four screenshots of Keke Palmer in Usher's "Boyfriend" music video, she's dancing in white boxers and a white sport bra in each of them.
Music

Keke Palmer Dances in Boxers in Usher’s “Boyfriend” Video, a Well Timed Clapback to Her Ex

You don’t have to scratch especially deep beneath the surface for a queer line reading of Keke Palmer rolling around in a pair of boxers while crooning that someone’s girlfriend is going to be thinking about her at night.

Carmen Phillips August 16, 2023 11 Comments
Victoria Monet in the "On My Mama" video in two side-by-side images: on the left, in a red bra and baseball cap, with baggy pants, on the right in an oversized white tee and green do-rag.
Music

Bisexual R&B Star Victoria Monét Is Giving Sexy Tomboy in New Music Video

If you just so happen to love it when queer girls dress up like a ’00s era Ciara or Beyoncé music video, “On My Mama” was made for you.

Carmen Phillips August 15, 2023 6 Comments
Kyle Richards and Morgan Wade kissing in Morgan's new music video
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Music

Bravo Dyke Obsessively Breaks Down the Lesbian Fantasy Morgan Wade/Kyle Richards Music Video

Kyle Richards plays Mommi Next Door in Morgan Wade’s new video.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 11, 2023 7 Comments
Queen Latifah is in a black fluffy gown and smiling in Netflix's Ladies First.
Music TV Reviews

Netflix’s “Ladies First” Recenters the Women of Hip-Hop in Their Complex Grit, Beauty, and Honesty

Ladies First reinstates Black women as the founders, experts, contributors who quite literally built hip-hop that they are.

Carmen Phillips and Natalie
August 10, 2023 8 Comments
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First Person Music

Just Waiting To Be Found

For my entire childhood, I spent every summer in the Appalachian Mountains.

M.R. Brite August 2, 2023 2 Comments
First Person Music

10 Mountain Goats Songs, Ranked by Transness

I’m not alone in my obsession with finding themes of gender oppression and transformation in their raw, high-wire, indie-rock lyrics about tragedy, monstrosity, drugs, and sickness. 

E.E. Murray July 31, 2023 6 Comments
16-3-1988 Amsterdam, Netherlands. Irish singer Sinead O'Connor performs at Paradiso. Copyright Paul Bergen
Music

Queer Icon Sinead O’Connor Has Died at the Age of 56

“I’m not a pop star. I’m just a troubled soul who needs to scream into mikes now and then.”

Riese July 26, 2023 9 Comments
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