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Sex

View From The Top: We Don’t Need A Safeword

“I’m not saying the only time you should play with safewords is in consensual non-consent. But to me, it’s the only time they’re really necessary.”

Sinclair Sexsmith October 11, 2016 89 Comments
Sex

Naughty Lesbian Scenes

Oh, it’s definitely hot in here. Because of ~*lesbians.*~

Adrian October 11, 2016 54 Comments
Halloween

10 Costume-Within-A-Costumes for Halloween Inspired by Your Fave Female TV Characters

Costume advice from someone who takes Halloween costumes way too seriously!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 11, 2016 15 Comments
Geekery

Our 12 Favorite Queer Things About 2016 New York Comic Con

Steven Universe and Wonder Woman and Carmilla and Wynonna Earp and Lost Girl and Batwoman and Lumberjanes, oh my!

A.E. Osworth October 10, 2016 8 Comments
AF+

A+ Inbox LIVE! #14: Reverse Ecstasy

A-Camp Wisconsin, firebugs, depression that is rooted to a place, and the correct feelings to have after your partner cheats on you with a dude. It’s A+ Inbox LIVE and it’s ready for you!!

Laneia October 10, 2016 27 Comments
First Person

Indigenous People’s Day: Honoring My People And Rejecting “Heroic” Genocide

I truly pity people who aren’t evolved enough to celebrate their heritage beyond that of a mass-raping, slave-trading, sex-trafficking murderer with a bad sense of direction.

Jen Deerinwater October 10, 2016 7 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

OK Fine: Are Kristen Stewart And Annie Clark Dating Now Or What?

Look, I don’t like this any more than you do.

Stef October 10, 2016 26 Comments
Halloween

7 Halloween Costumes That Subvert the Heteronormative Patriarchy

Watch out, 2016! Hillary’s on the rise and so are you – straight through some glass!

Erin October 10, 2016 24 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Top 100 Lesbian & Bisexual YouTubers & Couples List: Ranked By Channel Subscribers

With millions of subscribers between them, these lesbian, bisexual and otherwise queer-identified YouTubers are taking over online video content with their channels, one view at a time! Read the list of the top 100 YouTube channels at Autostraddle.com!

Laura Mandanas October 10, 2016 102 Comments
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22 Sweet Pies To Warm Your Heart (And Belly) This Fall

Make one of these for your sweetie, your mom, your vegan/gluten free gal pal, or your cat (don’t do that), and celebrate the loving embrace of autumn!

Ari October 10, 2016 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

The Second Presidential Debate: Hillary’s Passionate and Trump is on the Prowl

“As he paced maniacally about the stage, Trump straight up lied about easily confirmable facts, like telling Anderson Cooper “No I didn’t,” when Cooper asked if he had done the things he bragged about doing to Billy Bush.”

Rachel October 9, 2016 53 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Will Bear Witness To Your Queer Love

The internet helped a lesbian couple tie the knot, Australia is not down to clown around on gay marriage, a pantsuit flashmob for Hillary, and people actually doing the work for elderly queers. Get in here and get your heart warmed up real fast!

Carmen October 9, 2016 20 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants More Piercings In More Places

The rise of nipple piercings, why winking is sexy, lingerie’s “nude” problem, hilarious theories on what causes lesbian sex and more.

Ryan Yates October 9, 2016 7 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Sara Ramirez is Bisexual: “Grey’s Anatomy” Star Comes Out, Gets An Alternative Lifestyle Haircut

This morning, at the 40 to None Summit to benefit LGBT homelessness, the gorgeous and talented Sara Ramirez showed up to introduce us to her fantastic new buzz cut and her intersectional truth: she’s the multi-racial daughter of immigrants, and she’s bisexual.

Jenn October 8, 2016 101 Comments
Geekery

How The Average Queer Can Start Making Virtual Reality Experiences

If Sue Perkins can’t sell you on VR, well then I can’t help you.

A.E. Osworth October 8, 2016 7 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Visibility Matters

“Sometimes you don’t realize the impact you have on others…”

Megan Praz October 8, 2016 29 Comments
Politics + Activism

Black Trans Woman Jazz Alford Killed in Alabama, the 22nd Trans Person Killed This Year

Jazz Alford is the 22nd trans person to be killed this year, the man who shot a teen lesbian couple in South Texas is charged with capital murder, Polish women shut down an abortion ban, and more news.

Yvonne October 7, 2016 6 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Welcome, New Friends!

Hey you yes you, are you new here? Welcome! Get in here and let’s all hang out!

Ryan Yates October 7, 2016 320 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Rosie O’Donnell Told Ivanka Trump About Her Feelings, Wrote A Transcendent Poem About It

“that is the most beautiful woman i have ever seen”
i say aloud to dana
she turns to look – turns back at me
“that’s ivanka”

Riese October 7, 2016 13 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #212: She’s A Little Trigger-Happy On The Misanthropic Rage

Topics include Sea World Ohio, “Fixer Upper,” Blue Apron, Bret Easton Ellis, the Golden Suicides, a con-woman, this really cool essay about ambition and SO MUCH MORE!

Riese October 7, 2016 7 Comments
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