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Join us for a Q&A with author M. Crane! Right now! See you there?

Nico February 27, 2023
TV Show Recaps

“The Last of Us” Episode 107 Recap: Let’s Go To The Mall

In a very special flashback episode, we learn about Ellie’s best friend and gay crush, Riley, and the night they spent in an abandoned mall.

Valerie Anne and Nic
February 27, 2023 13 Comments
ctress / writer Alison Brie attends the Film Independent "Somebody I Used to Know" Special Screening and Q&A at Harmony Gold
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Alison Brie Is Bisexual, Has Been Waiting for the Right Tweet To Tell You

Alison Brie is bisexual; she said it right out loud in a BuzzFeed video with her husband, and that is that! Huzzah!

Heather Hogan February 27, 2023 4 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Lisa Ann Walter Brought Parent Trap Co-Star Elaine Hendrix As Her Date to the SAG Awards

All the gay happenings from the SAG and NAACP Awards, famous sports gays getting married and having babies, the New Black Film Canon, and more!

Heather Hogan February 27, 2023 13 Comments
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Shopping

17 Things That Glow To Add a Little Light and Kitsch to Your Workspace or Bedside

You know what we could all use as we march into March? Light. Literally.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 27, 2023 25 Comments
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Behind the Scenes: The Autostraddle Black Elders Interview Project

“You and I are family.”

the team February 27, 2023 16 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Naija Lit: 2005’s “Walking With Shadows” Is a Meditation on Shame, Rupture, and Repair

As a child, I wasn’t different because I was gay (that came with teenagehood), I was different because I was autistic. 

Chinelo Anyadiegwu February 27, 2023 3 Comments
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Community LGBT History

“I Don’t Want To Be Forgotten”

“So I just accepted the fact that I truly was gay. I had to be gay. That was my acceptance of myself. I made an announcement in my own head that I was a gay woman.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 27, 2023 8 Comments
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First Person

The System Operates As Designed

Burnout is not simple tiredness. It is malaise and unexplained pain. It is a theft of spirit and the creative body.

Tamara Jerée February 27, 2023 17 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Full of It

What did the taco say to the guacamole?

Rachel February 27, 2023 10 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Answer Upsetting Questions and I’ll Tell You What Movie To Watch and Where

The movie/place combinations are slightly upsetting in and of themselves and yet also soothing if you really think about it, okay?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 26, 2023 37 Comments
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TV Feature

“There’s Nothing I Can’t Do”: Harlem’s Jerrie Johnson on Tye’s Self-Discovery and Breaking the Binary

“This binary is so new and so American and so beneficial to the patriarchy and white supremacy.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 26, 2023 3 Comments
Drag Race 1509 recap: Anetra on the runway in her crystal dress with the crystal spinal column turns her head back toward the camera.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1509 Recap: Spine-Tingling

We’re celebrating an actually monumental moment in Drag Race herstory. It’s the show’s 200th episode!

Drew Burnett Gregory February 25, 2023 5 Comments
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TV Feature

Francesca Farago Only Stayed On “Perfect Match” ‘Cause They Let Her Date a Woman

“I knew who was there, men-wise, and I was like, ‘I don’t know if I can waste anyone’s time by continuing to match with these men that I know I’m not going to get along with.'”

Riese February 25, 2023 4 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #109: Don’t Spiral

…which is always easier said than done, but know that you are seen, all the way.

Yao Xiao February 25, 2023 4 Comments
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Book Lists

Short Fiction Playlist: Five Queer Short Stories Featuring Pop Culture

Find sexy pirates, bachelorette viewing parties, and Whitney Houston crushes in these pop culture-packed queer short stories.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 25, 2023 5 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword Is Faking It Until She Makes It

What type of music is scary for birthday balloons?

brooke February 25, 2023 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Ryan Wilder Is Back With a Vengeance on “The Flash”

And also updates on Station 19’s heartbreaking return, Harlem’s season finale, Fantasy Island, A Million Little Things, the Equalizer, The Rookie: Feds, The Watchful Eye, and Truth Be Told. It was a big week, get in here!

The TV Team February 24, 2023 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

LGBTQ+ Population Growth Has Stalled Despite Our Best Efforts

7.2% of the population identifies as LGBTQ+, according to the latest Gallup poll. But the numbers for Gen Z remain high enough to suggest the future could be 20% LGBT+.

Riese February 24, 2023 8 Comments
Baloo from The Jungle Book, Paddington, and Smokey the Bear
Pop Culture Fix

Bears, Ranked By Lesbianism

Cocaine Bear has finally hit theaters. Apparently he only terrorizes straight people? But we couldn’t pass up an opportunity to be part of such an important cultural conversation. And so, we have ranked fictional bears by lesbianism. 

Heather Hogan and the team
February 24, 2023 39 Comments
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