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Food and Drink

How To Throw The Perfect Tea Party: A Gentle Guide

After reading this post please be sure to invite us to all the perfect tea parties you host in the future, okay?

Vanessa May 26, 2013 20 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Queer Fashion

T-Shirt Stencils for T-Shirt Stenciling, Autostraddle Style

Intern Geneva made four perfect stencils for you to cover yourself with after you go through the easier-said-than-done process of spray-painting them onto your old favorite shirts!

Carmen May 26, 2013 13 Comments
Book Lists

37 Books By, For, or About Bisexual or Otherwise Non-Monosexual People

Here you’ll find academic books and nonfiction books documenting the experiences of bisexual people, fiction or memoir that depicts bisexual people and a few online resources!

Rachel May 25, 2013 195 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read a F*cking Canadian Book, Eh: Zoe Whittall’s “Holding Still For As Long As Possible”

Will all these wonderfully complicated characters learn to unravel their complications and fears? Probably not. But will they braid them together to form a community? Don’t you hope so?

Malaika May 25, 2013 8 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Making Mountains On The Mountain

Tiny little mountains to snuggle on or off the mountain.

Hansen May 25, 2013 4 Comments
Book Lists

Ten Pure Poems

Today on the mountain we’re playing the Pure Poetry Challenge. Here’s the ten poems we’ll be paying homage to, all by pure poets.

Carmen May 25, 2013 14 Comments
Geekery

Tech Spring Cleaning Part 4: I’m Sorry, Folks, But It’s Cable Management Time

Are you ready for a rage-inducing activity? You have to fix your cables.

A.E. Osworth May 25, 2013 3 Comments
Queer Fashion

Lez Get Dressed For Work: The Suit-Not-Suit

Do you have to wear a suit to work? Can you wear an approximation of a suit? Here’s how!

Gabrielle Korn May 24, 2013 33 Comments
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You Can Take It With You: Rainbow Lentils

They say a colorful plate is a healthy plate. Get your colorful plate on with this springy salad. Plus how to go grocery shopping without a list.

Laura May 24, 2013 1 Comment
Food and Drink

Liquor On The Mountain: We’re Having a Whiskey Tasting And You Should Too

Ah, the power of buying alcohol in a large group of queermos – if you haven’t done it before, you should probably do it now. Why? Because you can get really amazing bottles to try that might be out of your budget otherwise and you’ll be trying those bottles in really excellent company.

A.E. Osworth May 24, 2013 24 Comments
First Person

Butch Please: Butch Goes Camping

Camp is family, after all.

Kate May 24, 2013 10 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Geekery

Nerdcraft: Craft Like a Nerd With Perler Bead Sprites

You, too, can put together your own bead sprites in the shape of 1-up mushrooms, Pokémon and the TARDIS. Gather up your geeks and go.

Whitney Pow May 24, 2013 24 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Our Top 10 Favourite Introverts

Introverts! We’ve everywhere. Here are some of our most loved, fictional and real.

Crystal May 24, 2013 41 Comments
School

Claire’s College Lesbianage: Change is Afoot… Er, Aknee

“It took about two weeks from the time that I tore my ACL during rugby practice to know for sure that it was torn, and about twenty minutes after that to change all of my summer plans.”

Claire May 23, 2013 16 Comments
House & Garden

Make A Garden Thing: Twig Plant Markers

If one of your plants dies on you, why not recycle it as a warning to others?

Kristen May 23, 2013 2 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Things We Might Miss on the Mountain

I’m on a mountain and can’t party with you. This is a taste of what I’ll be missing.

Brittani May 23, 2013 2 Comments
Movie Features TV Feature

Let’s Talk About Fictional Kickass Heroines: Katniss, Xena, Buffy and More

Here at Autostraddle, we love kickass women. We’re presenting a list of 20 of our favorite kickass fictional heroines as a way to jumpstart this feelingsfest and leaving the rest up to you!

Vanessa May 23, 2013 154 Comments
Sex

Erotica: The Story of Two Girls In Like With Each Other

How dare I fall for the signature move when I’ve heard about it countless times over Chinese food?

A.E. Osworth May 23, 2013 15 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: The IRS Targeted LGBT Groups And Other Stories We Missed This Week

The IRS doesn’t discriminate when it comes to discrimination, Andrea Gibson and Kelsey Gibb launch a new website, Brazil legalized same-sex marriage and much more.

Laura May 22, 2013 11 Comments
LGBT History

Eleven Women of Color You Should Know and Admire

Women who inspired us, gave us a vocabulary and taught us how to be ourselves.

the team May 22, 2013 28 Comments
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