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First Person

24 Incredible Personal Essays We Published In 2014

We told some really incredible stories this year and you won’t want to miss a thing.

Riese December 15, 2014 18 Comments
Politics + Activism

Dispatches From The Millions Marches: Thousands Show Up For #BlackLivesMatter Nationwide

“While it is definitely tragic we still have to march, there is something beautiful and hopeful about the fact that I am fighting for [my mom’s] freedom as much as mine, and we’re both out here so that my nephew, who just turned one, hopefully won’t have to march when he grows up.”

Yvonne December 15, 2014 2 Comments
Society + Culture

It’s Sunday Funday! Just Ask LeAnn Rimes, Ava DuVernay, and the Christmas Sheep

Same-sex couples are statistically proven to be bonded for life, an otter finds home for the first time, and a bunch of UK queers upgrade their love in this week’s good news roundup.

Carmen December 14, 2014 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Use Your Hands In Her Spare Time

Feminist porn, unnecessary sex ed outrage, masturbation and more.

Ryan Yates December 14, 2014 12 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Baopu #3

“I can only do so much in a made-up life.”

Yao Xiao December 13, 2014 10 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Homespun Love: Make a Handy and Cute Tea Wallet

This little guy holds four tea bags so that your tea-aficionado friend is never stuck drinking boring-but-ubiquitous Lipton.

Laura December 13, 2014 10 Comments
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3 Things to Know About Protecting Your Tech While Protesting

While data is technically — partially — protected from search by the Fourth Amendment, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that our right to privacy is not always honored by law enforcement.

Maddie December 13, 2014 6 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Roasting Over An Open Fire

Clip art mourning, T. Swift-shipping, and a mug of male tears

carrie December 12, 2014 14 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: Bisexual Declarations On Chasing Life, 69 Shenanigans on Marry Me

Also, Jane the Virgin introduced a lesbian subplot we’ve never seen before.

Heather Hogan December 12, 2014 3 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #157: Rain Makes Me Miss You

Topics include the last trailer park in Palo Alto, unarmed POC killed by police, black twitter, teenage YouTube stars, digital beauty in Hollywood and more!

Riese December 12, 2014 3 Comments
Christmas

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Tell Us About Your Holiday Survival Prep

What do you do to get ready for all the stuff you have to do? What are you doing tonight? Let’s hang out.

Ryan Yates December 12, 2014 292 Comments
Geekery

How “Batgirl #37” Undid a Year and a Half of Positive Trans Representation in a Single Page (Updated)

In this latest issue, not only do the writers play with some very dangerous transmisogynistic tropes, but they toss Barbara Gordon’s character development out the window and turn her from being the close friend and ally to a trans woman to an outright transphobe.

Mey December 12, 2014 99 Comments
TV Feature

Fan Fiction Friday: 7 Sexy-Sweet Faking It Fics to Light Your Yule Log

If all you want for Christmas is a little Karmy action, Santa has arrived early!

Heather Hogan December 12, 2014 10 Comments
Community

You Should Go: Speed-Dating at the Strand, Plus How to Speed-Date Like a Champ

‘Tis the season to have a blast with some queers and find someone new to read graphic novels with while watching Love Actually and smoking some firme bud by the fire.

gabby December 12, 2014 8 Comments
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Christmas

Holigays Style Guide: Too Old And Cranky For Santacon

In my youthful exuberance, many crimes against fashion and dignity were committed. Not this year.

Laura Mandanas December 12, 2014 3 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #61: Snowing Pages

#BlackPoetsSpeakOut, notable book lists, new Harry Potter, we are reading so much and more.

Ryan Yates December 11, 2014 10 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Salem Episodes 5 and 6 Recap: Holy Homoerotic Femdom

Say some Hail Marys and make a sign of the cross, because these episodes are a hot, sexy mess. If you’ve been hanging in there and waiting for some extra-flamey gay witch action, then these episodes are for you.

Loraine December 11, 2014 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

FDA Upholds Status Quo Banning Blood Donations From Gay Men

The FDA is the one politicizing the issue, not the blood organizations and medical associations that support lifting the lifetime ban.

Adrian December 11, 2014 7 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide 2014: Modern Finds for Retro Girls

If you or someone you love likes old things, thrift stores, antiques, records, and eating at classic diners, you’re in the right place.

Carmen December 11, 2014 10 Comments
Food Lists

Sober in the City: Indulge in These 20 Hot Chocolate Variations

The holiday season is the perfect time to indulge in decedent non-alcoholic hot chocolate concoctions that will put your co-workers’ spiked eggnog to shame.

Ginger Hale December 11, 2014 20 Comments
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