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First Person

It’s More Fun When We’re Co-Conspirators

“Her hair is like another person. Today it’s two braids.”

Laneia June 21, 2013 51 Comments
Politics + Activism

New Study Shows Discrimination Makes it Harder to Move In With Your Girlfriend

Moving is stressful for everyone, but a new study shows it could lead to even more late-night teeth grinding episodes among queers.

Malaika June 21, 2013 12 Comments
Camp

A-Camp May 2013 Recamp #3: Fun Before 2pm, Fun After 2pm

You’ve got swagger, fashion, comedy, whiskey, geeky pick-up lines and the coolest klub on the mountain!

the team June 21, 2013 84 Comments
Hair

Butch Please: Butch Cuts Her Hair

Hair is a part of my queer ritual.

Kate June 21, 2013 71 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #80: Whose Boxers Are These?

Topics include North Korea, gun control, animators from Mormon country, freelancing, the long con, the murder of Jam Master Jay, Brittney Griner, true war stories, indie bookstores and so much more!

Riese June 21, 2013 8 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

DIY Beauty Bar: Body Butter

Whip up some homemade lotion that’ll keep your body soft all summer.

Laura June 21, 2013 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

Lez Get Dressed For Work: Everlane Makes Summer Dreams Come True

The only shirt you need this summer. Also known as another post on button front shirts, because they’re my life force.

Gabrielle Korn June 21, 2013 18 Comments
Dating

Listicle: Some Things to Maybe Not Do on a Queer Lady Date

“Apologies to the chica who had to endure a reenactment of my favorite scene from Glitter.”

gabby June 20, 2013 127 Comments
Politics + Activism

Keeping Up With The Republicans: How the GOP Feels About Gays This Week

Those crazy kids are always up to something. Here’s this week’s roundup.

Cara June 20, 2013 9 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Stooshe Puts On Make-Up While Eating Cheerios

A QWOC music video, another Cheerios ad for the haters, the iNotRacist app, and a feminist make-up tutorial.

Brittani June 20, 2013 12 Comments
First Person

A Prairie Homo Does New York: Oh, The Places You’ll Go

How many worlds can you fit per square mile?

Malaika June 20, 2013 3 Comments
Music

Crystal’s Track Stop Is The New Girl Style

Rad new-ish tracks from Holly Miranda, Abbe May, Saint Le Roq and Camera Obscura.

Crystal June 20, 2013 12 Comments
Camp

A-Camp May 2013 Recamp #2: Nothing Compares 2 U At Camp

“I’m gonna support the SHIT outta you.” (Also, a Lilith Flair playlist!)

the team June 19, 2013 77 Comments
Politics + Activism

Exodus International’s President Does the Unthinkable, Explicitly Apologizes to Gay Community

Exodus’s president, Alan Chambers, has posted a comprehensive apology to the gay community on their website.

Rachel June 19, 2013 28 Comments
Music

The 24 Gayest Things in the New Miley Cyrus Video, “We Can’t Stop”

Before things can get good, they have to get gay. A new saying spawned from seeing all the gay things I saw in Miley Cyrus’s new video for “We Can’t Stop.”

Brittani June 19, 2013 128 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 103 Recap: Taking the Taco Truck to Gay Town

“Steph is making cheese sandwiches with no condiments of any kind. Lesbian moms are cruel.”

Vikki Reich June 19, 2013 35 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Anti-Gay Workplace Discrimination Is Still Happening and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The SCOTUS keeps us waiting, the man keeps us down, and nobody knows what the fuck is going on with Barack Obama these days.

Carmen June 19, 2013 14 Comments
Health

Three Apps for Working Out Your Hot Hot Bod Without Having To Leave the House (Mostly)

Exercise is hard and boring, but these are some apps that make it a little more reasonable.

Rachel June 19, 2013 30 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Tica Douglas

Uncategorisable voices “furnished her musical imagination and gave her hope” as Tica grew up and developed as a songwriter.

Crystal June 19, 2013 4 Comments
Queer Fashion

Style Thief: How to Dress Like Brittney Griner

This dapper WNBA hotshot has more than just jerseys– we’re stealing Brittney Griner’s style.

Lizz June 19, 2013 21 Comments
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