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Food Lists

30 Winter Mocktails To Get Cozy With

Queue up a fake fire on your TV and have mocktails by a mockfire.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 22, 2024 16 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for Sagittarius Season 2024

Sagittarius season encourages us to have independent thoughts and actions.

Deb Roe November 21, 2024
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Movie Features

“My Body, My Choice!”: Unpacking the Queer Subtexts of ‘Junior’ 30 Years Later

Ivan Reitman’s second team-up of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito after Twins (1988) has a bit of a cult status in my queer friend group.

Payton McCarty-Simas November 21, 2024 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

‘The Sex Lives of College Girls’ Season Three Struggles To Let Go of Reneé Rapp

While The Sex Lives of College Girls succeeds in ushering Rapp off the canvas, it’s less successful in navigating its third season without her.

Natalie November 21, 2024 5 Comments
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Movie Features

We’re Watching Trans Media Wrong

Very few movies are Bad or Good, Offensive or Inoffensive, Positive or Harmful.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 21, 2024 5 Comments
First Person

I Believe We Shouldn’t Own Guns. I’m Learning How To Shoot One Anyway

Everyone needs to stop being so flippant about telling queer and trans people to buy guns.

Stef Rubino November 21, 2024 8 Comments
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Comedy

Affirmations You Can Say to Yourself in the Mirror Every Morning That Are Just Direct Quotes From ‘Cruel Intentions’

Tired: Start your day by setting intentions.
Wired: Start your day by quoting Cruel Intentions.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 20, 2024 6 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Is ‘Real Housewives of New York’ the New ‘L Word’?

Racquel and Mel are bringing queerness to RHONY beyond the visibility of their relationship.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 20, 2024 3 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Chappell Roan Deserves a Break

Plus, a photo of Melissa King that will have you screaming YES, CHEF!!!!!!

Christina Tucker November 20, 2024 1 Comment
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TV Feature

Rebels Against Disney Have Uploaded the Cut Trans Episode of ‘Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur’

The completed episode of the Marvel animated series appeared to have been cut due to its pro-trans message.

Rendy Jones November 20, 2024 3 Comments
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AF+ Queer Pregnancy

Baby Steps #1: How We Got Gay Pregnant

My wife and I are having a baby and this is the first edition of Baby Steps, a column about the gestation and eventual birth of this human child who I think is going to be pretty tall!

Riese November 19, 2024 74 Comments
TV Show Recaps

I Can’t Believe They Went to a Dyke Bar (Again!) on ‘Real Housewives of New York’

Racquel, Hot Mel, Erin, and Abe head to The Bush in Brooklyn.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 19, 2024
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Dating

‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’

Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?

Summer Tao November 19, 2024 1 Comment
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TV Reviews

‘Arcane’ Continues With Hope, Heartache, and a Goth Era

“I can appreciate a girl who’s down bad and Cait sure is that!”

Valerie Anne and Nic
November 19, 2024 2 Comments
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Thanksgiving

Questions To Ask Yourself Before Going to Your Family’s Super Straight, Potentially Hostile Holiday Gathering

The answers to which might tell you you shouldn’t go at all.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 19, 2024
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Bi Reality Star Francesca Farago and Trans TikToker Jesse Sullivan’s twins have been birthed and named! Also: Sophie Turner gets eyed for Lara Croft, Cynthia Erivo compares Elphaba’s othering to being a Black queer woman, and more!

Valerie Anne November 18, 2024 3 Comments
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Music

Kate Bush Songs That Make Me Feel Gay and Invincible as Hell

I talk about Bush and her contributions a lot with friends, but when news of her potentially heading back into the studio dropped, I immediately started thinking about a list of songs.

Stef Rubino November 18, 2024 4 Comments
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Sports

Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis Are Going To Be Soccer Moms!

Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis are expecting their first child in 2025.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 18, 2024 4 Comments
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Theater

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Multi-hyphenate playwright Lady Dane Figueroa Edidi shares the origin and intention of Black Trans Women at the Center, a theatre festival now in its fifth year.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 18, 2024
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Planet Should You Move To?

Be honest is it time to pack up your things and move to Venus? Or maybe Saturn is more your style? Let’s find out.

Riese November 17, 2024 5 Comments
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