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Queer Fashion

Style Thief: Steal M3GAN’s Killer Looks

A multi-hyphenate legend! Companion, parental figure, AND murderer! There is nothing M3GAN cannot do!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 19, 2023 9 Comments
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Lesbian Weddings

Blush and Bashful: I’m Writing a Lesbian Wedding Column and You’re Invited

Welcome to Blush & Bashful, a new biweekly column about planning a queer wedding.

Vanessa January 19, 2023 17 Comments
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Puzzles

Word Search: Queer Literature

Important works, casual word search.

Casey January 19, 2023 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Aubrey Plaza’s Sexy Disaster Reporter Was Too Weird Even for SNL

Brittney Griner was all smiles at an MLK Day march, HBO’s The Last of Us is a certified mega hit, Sarah Michelle Gellar won’t even say Joss Whedon’s name, and more.

Heather Hogan January 18, 2023 3 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

How I’m Navigating Play Parties as a Disabled, Immunocompromised Kinkster

I knew they taught about safety in BDSM culture, and I assumed that this ethic would carry through in their COVID safety. I was wrong.

Jade T. Perry January 18, 2023 10 Comments
The Fixer by Lee Winter features a woman's face held close to a martini glass on its cover
LGBT Book Reviews

“The Fixer” Is Slow Burn Lesbian Romance at Its Finest

Lee Winter is back with an age gap, ice queen romance that leaves you hanging.

Christina Tucker January 18, 2023 4 Comments
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No Filter: Sarah Paulson’s Birthday Post for Holland Taylor Cleared My Skin

Also: Love some wholesome Candace Parker content!

Christina Tucker January 18, 2023 2 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Getting Into Softball

Hey how’s your long-distance relationship going?

Rachel January 18, 2023 8 Comments
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TV Reviews

The Last of Us’ Lesbian Lead Is a Light in the Darkness

This review is presented to you by two gay nerd friends who love gay nerd games and the gay nerd content that spawns from it.

Valerie Anne and Nic
January 17, 2023 14 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Hulu’s “The Drop” Review: Lesbian Destination Wedding Goes Wonderfully Wrong

The movie delightfully mines marital conflicts for humor, but it falters in the writing of its lesbian characters.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 17, 2023 9 Comments
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Relationships

You Need Help: You Fat-Shamed Your Beautiful Girlfriend

If your girlfriend wrote into this column with this story, I would tell her she should break up with you.

Heather Hogan January 17, 2023 175 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

Alison Rumfitt’s “Tell Me I’m Worthless” Is Fearlessly Honest About Modern Trans Life

In a time when so many popular examples of queer art have their edges sanded down, Alison Rumfitt’s Tell Me I’m Worthless is all edge.

Esther Rosenfield January 17, 2023 4 Comments
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Society + Culture

This Is “-Ussy”: On Mainstream Culture’s Embrace of Queer Language

Frankly, I don’t think most straight people have the wit to make -ussy funny and campy the way we have.

danijanae January 16, 2023 9 Comments
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Podcasts The L Word: Generation Q

To L And Back: Generation Q Podcast 309: When a Fire Starts to Burn

“If Shane asked me to go to couple’s therapy, I’d be like, “We don’t even know each other, but if this is what it takes to get you into a therapist’s office, absolutely, let’s do it.”

Analyssa January 16, 2023 25 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Janelle Monáe, Niecy Nash-Betts Win Critics Choice Awards

Candace Parker on Celebrity Jeopardy, Kiersey Clemons and Alison Brie have gay vibes in their new movie, LSU’s new Seimone Augustus statue, and more!

Heather Hogan January 16, 2023 2 Comments
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School

Practical Magic: How to Take a Decolonial Approach to Educating

We must build a world in which the model for education is holistic, liberating, and guarantees that each student is valued.

Lily Alvarado January 16, 2023 11 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Would’ve Made a Better Deal with Ursula

What does a cat have that no other animal has?

brooke January 16, 2023 7 Comments
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Book Lists Quizzes

Quiz: What Queer Book in Translation Should You Read?

I’ve gathered eight LGBTQ books in translation from around the world in various genres and forms. Take the quiz to get matched with one.

Casey January 15, 2023 25 Comments
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Theater

16 of the Gayest Musical Theatre Songs That Aren’t Actually Queer

Honestly, I could have added more Sondheim, but I had to stop myself.

Sa'iyda Shabazz January 15, 2023 23 Comments
Drag Race 1503 recap: With a green screen workplace backdrop Salina EsTitties lies on the ground and looks up at Sasha Colby who is in a white dress and breaking her neck.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1503 Recap: Heavenly Body-ody-ody

We’re going from supersized to bite-sized as the new one hour format is here to stay! What isn’t cut for time is the queens sharing their queer trauma in the work room.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 14, 2023 10 Comments
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