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Bottoms Up: That Time I Told My Boifriend I Liked Being Told What to Do

How do you tell someone, “Hey, I’d love it if you’d slap me around and tell me what to do”?
Turns out, you tell them just like that.

Ari February 9, 2016 47 Comments
Politics + Activism

Trans Texas Prisoners (Technically, Kind Of) Have Access to Hormone Therapy Now

Texas prisoners who didn’t have access to hormone therapy before a new policy change, can now access it, a full debrief on the Republican and Democratic debates, some good and bad bills for LGBT people, Kayden Clarke, a young trans man, was killed by police and more news!

Yvonne February 9, 2016 29 Comments
TV Reviews

“Jane The Virgin” Shifts its Love Triangle in a Revolutionary Queer Direction

Jane the Virgin has put a pin in its Rafael-Jane-Michael love triangle and turned its attention to a Rose-Luisa-Susanna one.

Heather Hogan February 9, 2016 54 Comments
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Join A+ This Week and Get Yourself Some “Gal Pal” and Scissoring Stickers!

We’re sending exclusive Gal Pal and Scissoring stickers (which will never appear in the Autostraddle store) to A+ members who want them, so maybe this would be a good day for you to join A+.

The Editors February 9, 2016 18 Comments
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A+ Members: We Have A Present For You

We have Gal Pal and Scissoring stickers and we want to send them to you in the mail.

The Editors February 9, 2016 60 Comments
Valentine's Day

10 Love Poems by Queer Poets for Your Queer Valentine’s Day

Have some love poems by queer & lesbian poets along with your Hallmark cards and chocolates.

Maree February 9, 2016 14 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor In The Winter: The Abbey Longs for Springtime

Seasonal but hopeful for Spring? The Abbey is delightful and orange and has your back this February.

A.E. Osworth February 9, 2016 13 Comments
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Drawn to Comics: Hourly Comics and New Boom! Comic Jonesy will Make Your Week Better

Every year on Hourly Comics Day we get some wonderful journal comics from some of the best artists on the web. It’s a great way to learn more about the artists you love and see what their art looks like when they’re being casual and just having fun. Also, you’re gonna love Jonesy!

Mey February 9, 2016 6 Comments
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Helping You Help Yourself #20

Thank you notes, ripening avocados, what happens if you file your taxes late, some very chill situations, and more!

Rachel February 8, 2016 25 Comments
Sex

Is Period Sex The Ultimate Lesbian Sexual Indicator?

People who want to have period sex have more and varied sex more often and report higher sexual satisfaction than anyone else, a survey finds.

Ryan Yates February 8, 2016 40 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Witch Hunt: What’s Your Witchsona?

Some of our favorite artists draw themselves as witches, Rachel makes you a playlist for your ritual healing bath, KaeLyn crafts an amulet, Maree reminds us why Practical Magic is so good, Maddie weighs on on witchy commerce, Heather talks about black cats, and so much more!

Mey February 8, 2016 26 Comments
Food Lists

30 Ways To Get Grapefruit Into Your Life

Not your grandma’s breakfast bowl.

Ryan Yates February 8, 2016 12 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Just Bought a Bunch of Cookies From a Badass Trans Girl Scout

LGBT rights stamps from the UN, gay marriage in Mexico, the beginning of the end of ex-gay therapy in New York, a badass trans Girl Scout who sold a fuckton of cookies, and a baby goat. A BABY GOAT!

Carmen February 7, 2016 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Use You Like A Space Heater

Queer feelings, being a rope bottom/being a translator, cheap dates that don’t feel cheap, multiple orgasms and more.

Ryan Yates February 7, 2016 2 Comments
Geekery

5 Apps to Make Your Super Bowl Experience More Feminist Friendly

From beer to puppies to feminist sports reporters, these five apps will make watching the Super Bowl way more fun.

Heather Hogan February 6, 2016 25 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Little Monster

“Fairly recently, I’ve taken a new approach to how I view and handle my depression.”

Cameron February 6, 2016 51 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Register for A-Camp

French fries, Carrie Brownstein, slippers, Very Series People and more comments!

Bren February 5, 2016 15 Comments
Camp

A-Camp 6.0 Recamps Part Four: Don’t Believe Me Just Watch

“Nothing better than this concert has ever happened. EVER. I saw Boyz II Men in 1994 and this was FORTY THOUSAND TIMES BETTER.”

Riese February 5, 2016 59 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: It’s Time to Play a Round of “Tell Me Everything”

I’ve been watching a ton of Netflix and taking damn good care of myself. How about you? I missed your faces, so come on down and tell me everything!

Carmen February 5, 2016 306 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

How To Cure Your Consumption By Laying In A Ditch and Other Witch Home Remedies

“Every morning cut up a little turf of fresh earth, and lying down, breathe into the hole for a quarter of an hour.”

Erin February 5, 2016 36 Comments
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