50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date
A collection of 50+ gay first date question prompts to get the conversation flowing.
TIFF 2025: Charli xcx Has Bi Vibes in the Frustratingly Conventional ‘Erupcja’
The film makes it clear there’s a way for queerness to also be conventional.
I Feel Like Leaving When My Sexual Partners Require Me To Come
How can you convince your hookups to stop trying to make you have an orgasm? Also, tips on maintaining a writing practice for people with ADHD.
Guinness World Records Welcomes American Drag Artists
In a country where drag is facing regular backlash, cementing artists’ stature in the Guinness World Records makes drag’s past and present accessible not just physically but culturally.
20 Podcasts With QTPOC Hosts You Can Listen To Right Now
Well, well, well. Another month, another white queer person saying stupid shit into a microphone, with other queer white people standing around letting it happen.
Bisexual Badass Sophie Turner Will Be Our Next Lara Croft
Now let’s hope the new Tomb Raider show is queer, too.
Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for September 2025
September is here, and with it comes a bunch of new LGBTQ+ book releases — from horror to rom-coms and everything in between!
No Filter: Happy Five Year Anniversary To the Time Niecy Nash Got Surprise Gay Married
Plus, Chloë Grace Moretz got gay married and more celesbian news from the week!
Fall Is Always a Time for New Beginning
When it comes to decorating, my wife and I are polar opposites.
Trans Resistance Is Expanding
While attacks and setbacks are still happening, we’re seeing the fight for trans rights take on new shapes and scale.
‘I Really Want To Be Bi but I’m Unsure HELP’
Life got much easier when I learned I could keep a bunch of labels/self-identities in my pocket and swap them out as necessary.
The Lovers Tarot Card IS Gay
Cowboy Clairvoyant redownloaded the apps. Find out how that went and read their advice for readers looking to make major life changes.
September 2025: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Prime Video, HBO Max, Hulu and Apple TV
A new series from Mae Martin promises thrills and gays, The Morning Show returns, and so does super queer superhero series Gen V!
What Queer Novel Featuring an Age Gap Relationship Should You Read?
Are you gay with mommy issues? Yeah, there’s an entire literary canon for that.
‘Women Wearing Shoulder Pads’ Is Full of Laughs, Lesbians, and Guinea Pigs
Think of any Pedro Almodóvar movie you’ve seen, make it as silly as possible, and then you’d get Gonzalo Cordova’s hilarious and visually imaginative Women Wearing Shoulder Pads.
Should We Be Paying Our Friends To Babysit?
They’re doing well financially and love your kid — should you still offer money? Also; tips on giving complements to mascs and butches.
What the Hell Is Going on With the Crosswalk Culture Wars?
If you know anything about the queer and trans communities throughout Florida, you know they rarely take these kinds of attacks lying down.
Twenty-Five Years Later, Michelle Tea’s ‘Valencia’ Remains Stunning Portrait of Lesbian Life
Valencia permitted me to romanticize my world.
Meet the Two Out Queer Players in the US Open 2025 Women’s Singles Draw
Your local Tennis Lesbian is reporting for duty.
Is Your Ex Stalking You on Zelle?
What to do if you think your ex is stalking you on payment apps.