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Quinni, Darren, and Amerie in Heartbreak High sit on a bathtub and lean into each other.
TV Reviews

Very Queer New Series “Heartbreak High” Is an Excellent Entry Into the Friendship Breakup Canon

Heartbreak High features a queer nonbinary character, a queer autistic character, an asexual character, and so much more — but it never feels like it’s just checking boxes with its characters or storytelling.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 23, 2022 7 Comments
Three photos of Nico as a teenager, they are a white person who has bleached blonde bangs on a brunette layered bob, they have on sunglasses and a grey tank top and are smiling. They are collaged in front of the Bi Pride colors (pink, purple, blue)
Identity

15 of the Most Chaotically Bisexual Things I Did as a Bisexual 15-Year-Old

My bisexuality was a resistance and a freedom and a liability. It was such a defining part of my life that I still cling to the word, to its shifting meaning, to all it can be and all the defiance it stands for.

Nico September 23, 2022 22 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Feeling Seen

“Carson Shaw, indeed!”

Darcy September 23, 2022 4 Comments
Velvet broken hearts collaged in front of a bisexuality color palette (pink, blue, purple)
Friendship Identity

The Echo of My Friend’s Casual Biphobia Destroyed Our Relationship

“Remember your bi phase?” my best friend asked when we were in our 20s. I rolled my eyes.
“Yeah. It was never a phase.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 23, 2022 27 Comments
Two women tell each other a secret over wine, one is brunette and one is blonde. Overlayed over them are the bi pride flag colors (pink, purple, blue) and then on top of that layer is the following text message: But alas here I am, Not knowing and yet behaving bisexually.
Dating Identity

What People Said When I Came Out as Bisexual (Again)

A special shout-out to the friend who said “you know you can just be bisexual, right?” when I was spiraling about whether I’d have to give up being gay altogether and if the last five years of my life had been a lie.

Analyssa September 23, 2022 15 Comments
A diagonal collage split three ways, left to right: Aunjanue Ellis walks the Oscars red carpet in an orange gown, Rae Williams in a OutKast band shirt, and Elizabeth Corrigan outside in a rainbow stripped tube top.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Celebrities Who Came Out as Bisexual This Year, Happy Bi+ Week to Everyone!

Also the 50 greatest Bad Bunny songs, and why does every teen in every movie want to go to Yale?

Carmen Phillips September 22, 2022
Viola Davis dressed as a Dahomey warrior in front of an orange sky in The Woman King
Movie Reviews

The Woman King Is A Testament To The Power Of Black Women

I left The Woman King feeling like I could fight any obstacle that was in my way. Not only was I full of adrenaline, but I was filled with joy. Seeing a group of powerful Black women triumph fills me like nothing else can.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 22, 2022 12 Comments
Sawayama in a large black gown that billows out into a ball shape against a red background.
Music

Rina Sawayama’s Sophomore Album “Hold the Girl” Wants Us To Heal Our Inner Child

“Hold The Girl” now stands with “Sawayama” in cementing Rina Sawayama’s status as one of the best pop stars of our generation.

Lily Alvarado September 22, 2022 4 Comments
four abstractly illustrated figures engage in a celebratory kinky dance. from left to right we have someone with top surgery scars wearing assless chaps, connected bvia a pair of cuffs to a person who is blindfolded and wearing cut out underwear, who is dancing next to someone in a mask and what appears to abe a full body rope bind, and followed by a person in a fishnet, corset and ballgag waving a flogger above their head. The figures are featureless and hairless and purple and the kink elements are red
AF+ Love + Sex

How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker

“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”

Vanessa September 22, 2022 6 Comments
spacious tarot & spacious tarot expansion pack, spread out on a grey wood table
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Libra Season 2022: Where Do Your Beliefs Come From?

Today the sun moves into the cardinal air of Libra, officially ushering us into autumn.

meg September 22, 2022 2 Comments
An illustrated woman peeks from behind a book
Literature

Rainbow Reading: Book Hangovers Are Real and I Have One

The latest LGBTQ+ book releases are full of queer dark academia vibes.

Yashwina September 22, 2022 4 Comments
The writer A.Tony and their friends gather for a group photo at Clexacon
First Person

I Met My Online Friends for the First Time and Remained Fully in My Head

34. Am I a granola bar lesbian?
35. *eats a candy bar* no

A. Tony Jerome September 21, 2022 8 Comments
Sarah Paulson on the red carpet the Emmys / gwen shamblin in front of a purple background with absolutely ENORMOUS hair
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Sarah Paulson to Play Cult Leader Gwen Shamblin, Wigs WILL Escalate

Wild lesbians hit the street for Bros; The Women Over 50 Film Festival; don’t panic, women’s basketball is not over, and more!

Heather Hogan September 21, 2022
a collage in tones of red, black and beige with office supplies, a broken keyboard, a person wearing a shirt made of computer keyboard keys sipping a straw from a cup full of them with a monitor for a head, a hot pot of coffee pouring down onto old school computer programming paper and leaving a stain, a catholic Mary's heart, a stapler, and a nightmarish looking excel spreadsheet
AF+

Anonymous Job Confession: A Hot Barista and Nightmare Spreadsheets

“It became what I thought was just a one-sided crush — a nice thing to daydream about while I was filling out the most horrendous, huge spreadsheets I had ever seen.”

Guest September 21, 2022 3 Comments
Seth Meyers, Amber Ruffin and Jenny Hagel on the set of Late Night With Seth Meyers
TV News & Trailers

Amber Ruffin and Jenny Hagel Shout Out Autostraddle on “Late Night With Seth Meyers”

“If the flannel fits…”

Heather Hogan September 21, 2022 16 Comments
Ali Krieger reclines on an inflatable pink chair while wearing sneakers, jeans, and a denim buttondown.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Ali Krieger Really Has “Effortless Cool Sporty Girl” Down Pat

Plus, enjoy this video of bisexual icon Cardi B being exactly who she is, AKA a perfect person.

Christina Tucker September 21, 2022 4 Comments
Little Asian girl choosing books from the bookshelf in library
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Books Discussing LGBTQ Themes and Racism Banned in Over 5,000 Schools, That’s Likely an Undercount

How to help Puerto Rico after Hurricane Fiona, the essential women in rap playlist, and bring Brittney Griner home. Bring her home right now.

Carmen Phillips September 20, 2022 2 Comments
two women with long hair kiss in front of a sunrise that is obscuring their faces with bright golden sunbeams. they are mostly in shadow
AF+

A+ Roundtable: Our First Times Having “Queer” Sex

“Her moaning kind of disappeared into the expanse of the ocean and the sand, and I remember thinking it was the coolest thing that ever happened to me.”

the team September 20, 2022 11 Comments
A woman with blonde shoulder-length hair puts on headphones, about to start a gaming livestream in front of her monitor which is flowing in bisexual lighting.
Geekery

9 Queer Video Game Streamers To Watch This Fall

As the weather becomes colder, there’s nothing I like to do more than pour myself tea and snuggle up to my computer monitor to watch strangers play video games online.

Julie Gentile September 20, 2022 13 Comments
two cute cats lie lazily on top of some drawers
Relationships

I’m Not a Cat Lesbian but I Fell in Love With One

I never wanted to live with a cat. Of course, the universe had other plans.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 20, 2022 5 Comments
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