Cats on leashes, Lizzo + Missy, Puerto Rican feminist collectives and so much more! Happy Sunday!!
The more I allowed myself to want, the more I realized I wanted. The more I leaned in to my desires, the clearer they became.
Whether you’re craving powerful forward motion or instead long to daydream in the brilliant sunshine, Leo season wants us to celebrate who we are and embrace the transformations we’re experiencing, rejoicing in the powerful growth that makes us bigger, stronger, even more incredible than we already are.
Sleater-Kinney, Hawaiians protecting Mauna Kea, protests in Puerto Rico, talking privilege with white dudes, cheese plates, Mister Rogers, the sculpture on the moon, and more!
Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.
International Nonbinary Day selfies, remembering the gay communes of the ’80s, lesbian period dramas, gay music, and more!
I wanna eat this on a lake at sunset or literally every hot summer morning for breakfast.
I got sober alone, in a village about an hour north of Kampala, Uganda. I had moved there for a job opportunity, naively confident I, as an openly queer person with a mental illness, could flit across the globe like a moth. By the time I quit my job and scheduled an emergency move back to the United States, my drinking was threatening my life.
As I watched “Area 51” become a trending topic and meme format over the weekend, I found myself wishing for some sort of brief explainer on the UFO-related events of the past few months, just so one could have some semblance of a fuck of an idea what was going on.
I’ve combined the data from multiple Box Wine tastings over the past few years including new info from this year’s tasting and come up with a very definitive ranking to where you should invest your Box Wine Budget.
Queer memory issues, these gay grandmas, alllllll the Bob Ross paintings, Janelle Monáe, understanding our menstrual cycle is like a whole thing!, The Little Mermaid is a queer allegory actually, and so much more!
How to have queer sex with a trans woman as a cis woman who hasn’t before, how to give feedback during sex, BDSM and sex work as tools of resistance and more.
Shania Twain, Lizzo, and Janelle Monáe walk into a bar… plus Lena Waithe on upcycling ex-girlfriends, Dine Pride, Mal Blum, legal name changes and more! Happy Sunday!!!
“You have to wear pants to go outside.”
Does anyone know what’s happening.
Kind of a short one today! kd lang, help protect families during the upcoming ICE raids, Megan Rapinoe, marijuana cake?, and a little bit more!
Listening to a song your crush recommends is a low-stakes window into their identity. It’s a way to get closer to someone, away from them. And isn’t that what a crush is all about? A solitary experience that has everything to do with the other person and at the same time nothing at all?
The party don’t stop ’cause the World Cup is over.
I’m not saying this summer will necessarily be a Summer of Breakups again — although it’s true there are two eclipses in Cancer season this year, yikes — but if you do find yourself suddenly among our number, I and many others are here to tell you that some semblance of a love life does exist on the other side of breakups, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
When everything starts moving too fast, I like to walk on bridges.