These are stories of risk and growth, building connections and realizing when they’re ending — all the places we think are worth moving toward and the things worth returning to.
Leo season is arriving in full lushness. It’s time to come out again.
“I’ve dated several Leos and they were all very mean to me!!!!”
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Is thinking about Gillian Anderson handing the rosary back to you still warm from her body heat an impure thought? Thinking about Gillian Anderson confessing? Thinking about confessing to Gillian Anderson? What do you think the exact moment was that a line was crossed irreversibly with the hot priest in Fleabag S2? How many novenas would I have to say for this entire train of thought? Much to think about.
A relatable icon for adult dating is Real Women Have Curves’ Ana García bringing index cards of conversation topics to her first date.
A new recession to look forward to, the end of straight, Lizzo singing in a small space, Tinder trying to keep LGBTQ travelers safe, R. O. Kwon, Caster Semenya, and more!
There are a lot of fun sex patents out there I don’t know what to tell you. Plus, pubic hair oil, dating friends or absolutely not dating friends, Mars and sexuality and more.
Cats on leashes, Lizzo + Missy, Puerto Rican feminist collectives and so much more! Happy Sunday!!
The more I allowed myself to want, the more I realized I wanted. The more I leaned in to my desires, the clearer they became.
Whether you’re craving powerful forward motion or instead long to daydream in the brilliant sunshine, Leo season wants us to celebrate who we are and embrace the transformations we’re experiencing, rejoicing in the powerful growth that makes us bigger, stronger, even more incredible than we already are.
Sleater-Kinney, Hawaiians protecting Mauna Kea, protests in Puerto Rico, talking privilege with white dudes, cheese plates, Mister Rogers, the sculpture on the moon, and more!
Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.
International Nonbinary Day selfies, remembering the gay communes of the ’80s, lesbian period dramas, gay music, and more!
I wanna eat this on a lake at sunset or literally every hot summer morning for breakfast.
I got sober alone, in a village about an hour north of Kampala, Uganda. I had moved there for a job opportunity, naively confident I, as an openly queer person with a mental illness, could flit across the globe like a moth. By the time I quit my job and scheduled an emergency move back to the United States, my drinking was threatening my life.
As I watched “Area 51” become a trending topic and meme format over the weekend, I found myself wishing for some sort of brief explainer on the UFO-related events of the past few months, just so one could have some semblance of a fuck of an idea what was going on.
I’ve combined the data from multiple Box Wine tastings over the past few years including new info from this year’s tasting and come up with a very definitive ranking to where you should invest your Box Wine Budget.
Queer memory issues, these gay grandmas, alllllll the Bob Ross paintings, Janelle Monáe, understanding our menstrual cycle is like a whole thing!, The Little Mermaid is a queer allegory actually, and so much more!
How to have queer sex with a trans woman as a cis woman who hasn’t before, how to give feedback during sex, BDSM and sex work as tools of resistance and more.