Today we’re using our sex survey data to talk about switches and also about those of you who identified as NONE OF THE ABOVE. Which is fine!
“She kisses me. I hold on to her arms lightly, not wanting to hurt her, not wanting to weird her out, make her uncomfortable. She’s here for me: I’d hired her for exactly that, and she agreed to it, and she’s here.”
“I’ve been dying to tell someone about how my partner and I finally found a name for our new dildo and it’s Antoni”
Black lesbian activist Angela Bowen has passed, generational wealth wow, queer and trans truck drivers, Julien Baker, Kesha loves lesbian love what can she say, lesbian werewolf movie anyone?, and so much more!
“A bold lip is my femme secret to instant confidence. I could be wearing day-old sweatpants and bed head and a red lip makes me feel READY TO BE SEEN.”
Why water sex is bad, why sex research is weird, why “the bottom’s in charge” undermines ideas of consent and more.
Interviews with cast of Pose, queer women in World War II, Janelle Monáe of course, and coming out because you’re in love!
Thank goodness lemon and zucchini are plentiful all summer long so you can make this over and over and over again, and I have a pretty good feeling that you’ll want to.
The plastic straw ban, the price of haircuts, excess weed, lesbians prevailing over the DMV, Queer Appalachia, we remain obsessed with Andrea Long Chu, King Princess, and so much more!
“Your truth is always your truth, whether said or silent. It just might not be the idea of your truth that somebody else has in their mind.”
It’s time for part two of our series on what queer women and trans people are talking about when they talk about tops, bottoms and switches. Today we are taking your love ON TOP.
“As a 25 year old, 5’3″ AFAB genderqueer person, with a face that apparently screams ‘possibly a 14 year old unaccompanied minor in this airport??’, it’s important that I look professional enough (especially when I’m teaching) to convey some authority. Any advice you’ve got to help me achieve my goal of being the queer professor crush of everyone’s dreams?”
The Navy updates its hairstyle policy, turns out the U.S. is a pretty terrible place for women, a queer girl kissing a queer mermaid, Korea’s Pride parade was a big deal, and more!
“I had two stuffed animal bear friends as a child. Pretty tight crew, I know, but two bears was enough as I also had an imaginary friend who was an adult woman that I had to entertain. I was only one child!”
Lena Waithe cut her hair and we are obsessed! Plus an unconventional story about two queer women building family, the beauty of sober queers, and Rebecca Sugar on being a non-binary woman!
Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.
It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.
An unscientific exploration of the totally uncalled for post-breakup behavior your ex will definitely possibly exhibit based on their sign.
Plus: Best lesbian kisses in movies, pro-gay soccer jerseys, new Sapphic Lasers, why Donald Trump is scared of breast feeding, how to sleep in summer without an a/c, and more proof lesbians do it better (in bed).
“One of the criticisms regularly lobbed against dental dams is the product’s perceived lack of sexiness, that stopping to grab one could kill the mood. Melanie Cristol was fed up. An accomplished consumer product and healthcare attorney at an international law firm based in Los Angeles, there wasn’t anything in her life that hinted she would be the reason for the next evolution in dental dams: Lorals.”