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Cozy Games for the People Who Are Already Tired of This Year

Rather than being defined by genre, cozy games are identified by vibes. They’re soft in tone and connect players to themes like friendship and cooperation.

Summer Tao February 7, 2025 5 Comments
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How AI Erases Queer Content

“In an uncanny way that only AI can achieve, this expressed rationale mirrors a common feeling held by cis folks when interacting with trans people: the paralyzing dread of saying the wrong thing.”

Ev Nichols October 10, 2024 7 Comments
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Dice Sets Ranked by How Much My Girlfriend Wants To Eat Them

My girlfriend Lucy lives with the neurodivergent urge to put small, colorful things in her mouth.

Summer Tao April 17, 2024 8 Comments
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Jump Into Pen-and-Paper Roleplaying With These Free and Simple Systems

Here’s a bunch of easy-to-learn roleplaying systems that are still packed with love and detail. They’re also better than cheap. They’re free. 

Summer Tao March 26, 2024 3 Comments
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An Unkempt List of Great Video Games for Queer Relationships

Someone saw Stardew Valley and decided it wasn’t gay enough. That’s how we ended up with Fae Farm.

Summer Tao March 5, 2024 7 Comments
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Palworld Could Be Your Relationship’s New Favorite Game

I tried Palworld because my bestie told me to.

Summer Tao January 31, 2024 8 Comments
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9 of the Best Queer Video Games of 2023

Adventure games, farming sims, and even a musical! Check out this list of some of the best — and queerest — games of 2023.

Valerie Anne December 19, 2023 12 Comments
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Geekery

Queer Dungeons & Transgender Dragons: Exploring Gender Through Imagined Worlds

In D&D, your character’s gender is entirely yours to invent. When you’re already embodying the experience of a half-elf or a cat person, playing a person of another gender isn’t all that strange. From there, anything is possible.

Rowan Zeoli December 11, 2023 6 Comments
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From Birdetta to Flea: 12 Trans Video Game Characters From the 80’s and 90’s

Whether we’re claiming a beloved, aspirational character or simply being mocked, the following characters are proof we’ve always been in the vast world of gaming.

Eva Reign November 20, 2023 7 Comments
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Geekery

Fae Farm Is Your New Stardew Valley — Including, Yes, Gay Marriage!

If you like growing crops, fighting magical monsters, collecting stuff, and making a whole town fall in love with you, I’ve got some great news.

Heather Hogan September 23, 2023 4 Comments
Pokemon Scarlet and Violet: The Teal Mask
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The Teal Mask Is a Sweet, Shiny Addition to Pokémon Scarlet & Violet

The Teal Mask builds on the sweetness that the base game gave us in all our main character stories last time around.

Heather Hogan September 16, 2023 2 Comments
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The Journal-Planner That Turned My Real Life Into a Video Game

The Hero’s Journal is more about the vibes, like cozy fantasy, than it is about actually making it to Mordor with a cursed ring in your pocket and hurling it into a fiery doom.

Heather Hogan September 9, 2023 2 Comments
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The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood: A Tarot-Making Game That Explores Gender, Grief, and More

The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood is queer spooky season catnip.

Heather Hogan September 2, 2023 5 Comments
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My 10 Best Butch Haircuts in Video Games

How could Cassandra ever refuse my elfin shaggy butch style??

Heather Hogan August 26, 2023 4 Comments
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MONOPOLY GO! Has Made a Monster Out of Me

I’m playing this game by asking myself what my actual favorite top-hatted person would do: And Anne Lister would stop at nothing to become a railroad tycoon! 

Heather Hogan August 12, 2023 8 Comments
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Yep, You Can Be Gay and/or Trans and/or Nonbinary in “Baldur’s Gate 3”

There’s even gay sex scenes, like every good pen-and-paper D&D game. 

Heather Hogan August 5, 2023 13 Comments
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Hello Kitty Island Adventure Is Your New Animal Crossing

My Melody? Yep, she owns a gift shop and bosses me around! Badtz-maru? Mm-hmm, he has a comic book stand on the dock!

Heather Hogan July 29, 2023 3 Comments
A Queer Marxist Analysis of Barbie is written on top of a bride flag and two Barbie dolls
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Marxist Barbie Discourse and the Weird Wide Web of Queer Video Essays

So what is there to do now that you’ve seen Barbie twice? I will be watching as many long, overly elaborate, documentary-style YouTube video essays about the subject as I possibly can.

Lindsay Eanet July 29, 2023 1 Comment
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The 10 Gayest Video Game Moments I Found When Cleaning My Nintendo Switch and PS5

This girl I flirted with three times in Assassin’s Creed: Odyssey gave me the choice of being with her or killing her! ETERNAL LOVE OR DEATH. Lesbians, dude.

Heather Hogan July 22, 2023 21 Comments
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“Critical Role” Campaign 3 is Gayer Than Ever

Nic and Valerie discuss how Imogen and Laudna finally kissed, and all the other gay goings-on of Critical Role’s third campaign.

Valerie Anne and Nic
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