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Comedy Dating

B is Hilarious: What She’s Doing When She’s Not Texting You Back

They should make up a sixth love language that’s just Texting Back in a Polite Amount of Time.

Brittani May 20, 2015 117 Comments
Money + Work

This Business of Art Fix #5: Prepare Yourself For The Extraordinary Instant

Topics include what Facebook Instant means for publishers, how to work remotely like a CHAMP, re-thinking the slush pile, the best cities for jobs, internet ads and moar!

Riese May 20, 2015 37 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: These Women Are Gay Right?

This week, we travel to Cannes with Cara Delevingne, dance awkwardly in a circle with Ireland Baldwin and slice up our pants with Julia Nunes. Laverne Cox is too busy dancing to pay attention.

Stef May 20, 2015 8 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Everyone Is Bananas For “Carol” at Cannes and Other Important Stories

More and more actors are calling out Hollywood’s gender inequality, Kim Kardashian says Bruce Jenner is beautiful, feminists have had it with Game of Thrones, Mad Men flips the script on Joan and Peggy, Leisha Hailey is coming to ABC Family, and Queen Latifah doesn’t care if you didn’t like her lesbian sex scene in Bessie.

Heather Hogan May 20, 2015 47 Comments
Queer Fashion

I Just Wanna Break The Rules: 3 Ways to be a Fashion Rebel

As fun as fashion can be, there are many supposed “rules” to dressing your fine self. It’s something that makes getting outfitted a very overwhelming process; which of these laws should be followed? I’m going to let you in on a secret… You don’t need to listen to a single one.

Lydia O May 20, 2015 23 Comments
Society + Culture

No One Can Stop Us: Black Lesbian Event Page Attacked by Schoolboys, Flooded with Support

This wasn’t just an attack on a Facebook invite. For many, this was an attack similar to those they experience in the real world navigating as Black Lesbians and in a space they felt safe in. So what exactly happened?

Carolyn Wysinger May 19, 2015 5 Comments
Sex

When Did You Do It For The First Time and How Many People Have You Done It With, Huh?

Oh you know, just the answers to everybody’s favorite two questions ever.

Riese May 19, 2015 47 Comments
Music

VIDEO: Nicki and Bey Giveth Much Life in “Feeling Myself” Music Video

The earth is aflame for the Nicki/Bey friendship canon. “Feeling Myself” delivers all the goods: cheeseburgers, bamboo earrings and Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé at their absolute best.

gabby May 19, 2015 22 Comments
First Person

Graduation to Womanhood: Navigating Trans Identity at a Southern College

It’s as if I had just discovered a new color and now had this entirely new dimension to my life. I was able to paint a holistic portrait of what I wanted the rest of my life to look like.

Raquel Willis May 19, 2015 19 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Mad Max: Fury Road” Is The Kickass Feminist Action Movie We’ve Been Waiting For

Go see Mad Max Fury Road. Go with your fists raised high and salute big, stupid, glorious, Hollywood blockbusters and go see what it looks like when we’re driving the smoking tractor-trailers into the unknown and fighting for our sisters to live free.

gabby May 19, 2015 52 Comments
Pets & Animals

Heather’s Team Pick: My Garbage Cat Wakes Me Up at 3AM Every Day

Meow and cry at the same time while kneading your dumb little paws, until you deplete your owner’s sleep meter and wake her up!

Heather Hogan May 19, 2015 18 Comments
Politics + Activism

Daily Fix: London Chanel, Black Trans Woman, Killed in Philly and Other News Stories

The way the media reported on the deadly Waco shootout, a trans woman was stabbed in Philly, there’s new restrictions on military style equipment for the local police and more news stories!

Yvonne May 19, 2015 3 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Have You Seen the Supergirl First Look Yet!?!?

I wasn’t really expecting a lot from this show, but I’m not gonna lie, I was crying by the end of this preview… and halfway through it…

Mey May 19, 2015 20 Comments
TV Reviews TV Show Recaps

Boob(s) On Your Tube: Fall TV Ends With a Whimper, Kate McKinnon and Aidy Bryant are Accidental Lesbians on SNL

Jane the Virgin, Arrow, and Grey’s Anatomy close out the TV season and ready us for the return of Orange Is the New Black.

Heather Hogan May 18, 2015 43 Comments
Politics + Activism

Voting Yes: A Guide to the Irish Marriage Equality Referendum

Ireland could be the first country in the world to have voted, as a population, for marriage equality. Though she be small, she is mighty.

Kate May 18, 2015 37 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

You Need Help: Negotiating A Queer Bachelorette Party

You want to have a bachelorette party together, but your girlfriend loves the spotlight and you don’t. Here’s how you navigate that.

Mari Brighe May 18, 2015 14 Comments
Food Lists

50 Salads. Zero Lettuce.

What is a salad, really?

Maddie May 18, 2015 24 Comments
TV Reviews

ABC Family Brings the Real-Life “Transparent” with “Becoming Us” (And That’s Not a Great Thing)

I found myself crying halfway through the first episode — not because the show was touching my heart, but because I couldn’t believe how Carly was being talked about by her family.

Mey May 18, 2015 44 Comments
Music

VIDEO: Taylor Swift and Kendrick Lamar’s “Bad Blood” Music Video Is Fucking Awesome

Remember when suddenly OLIVIA BENSON showed up though

Riese May 17, 2015 80 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Sorry Y’all, Cate Blanchett Didn’t Actually Have Many Relationships With Women

Let us mourn our loss together: the whisper of a promise of a world we never knew.

Heather Hogan May 17, 2015 63 Comments
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