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Movie Features

Watch NOOR & LAYLA: Fawzia Mirza’s New Short on Queer Muslim Love

Follow the ups and downs of a relationship — from its chaotic end to its shy beginnings.

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Pop Culture Fix

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My Gender Is Dyke

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Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for February 2022

Remember that your queer brilliance and dreamy imagination and ecstatic love for one another is a key force for resistance, but that you personally don’t have to save the whole damn world.

Corina Dross February 2, 2022 5 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

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Riese February 1, 2022 14 Comments
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Friendship

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LGBT Book Reviews

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Lesbian Dating Apps

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Quizzes

Quiz: What Bread Are You?

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