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A+ Roundtable: Our Sports Stories

“I mean, my first AIM screen name was SprtsFreek1224.”

the team July 19, 2022 5 Comments
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Relationships

You Need Help: Can I Go Through this Heartbreak Again?

In order to work through problems in a relationship, both parties must be present, willing, and able to do the work required. It’s a little like you’re sitting side by side in a rowboat, each holding one oar. When one person does all the rowing, you’re only going to go in circles.

Darcy July 19, 2022 11 Comments
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Music

The Five “Fast Car” Covers that Helped Me Get Free This Summer

The thing about our favorite songs – those that help us breathe and feel seen – is that when we love them, we shout our praise from the rooftops, we play them on repeat, and some of us (the bravest of us all) honor them with our own renditions.

shea wesley martin July 18, 2022 11 Comments
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Sex Toys

If My Clit Were Lost in the Woods, the Aer Would Still Find It

I’ve tried a lot of suction sex toys — here’s how the Aer compares.

Guest July 18, 2022 6 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: JoJo Siwa Unleashes Her Inner Softball Dyke at the MLB All-Star Game

How Ms. Marvel explored family trauma and India’s Partition, Craig of the Creek has Black American Sign Language rep, and BBC is looking for someone else to make Gentleman Jack magic with.

Heather Hogan July 18, 2022 7 Comments
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Community

They Created the World They Wanted to See: The Radical Possibility of FaT GiRL Zine

“This was a noninstitutionalized reaction. This was political, intentional, we’re gonna be fat and queer and creative and sexy and empowering and a collective action.”

Lindsay Eanet July 18, 2022 7 Comments
The cover of Spear shows a cauldron with white steam rising out of it and a red knight on a red horse.
LGBT Book Reviews

Nicola Griffith’s Spear Is a Gender-Bending, Queer Arthurian Adventure

There’s magic! There’s sword fights! It’s Mulan meets Merlin with a healthy helping of sapphic romance.

Heather Hogan July 18, 2022 11 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Fletcher’s Song About Becky With The Good T-Shirt, Explained

A small clip from Fletcher’s new song “Becky’s So Hot” — which she wrote about her ex-girlfriend Shannon’s now-girlfriend — has set lesbian TikTok ON FIRE.

Riese July 17, 2022 13 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Fictional Heroine From a Classic Tween Book Are You?

If your tweenhood was anything like mine, you spent a considerable amount of time reading books about girls your age going through the same stuff you were.

Casey July 17, 2022 14 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

Five Outfits for Being Hot and Absolutely Unapproachable at the Reunion

Whether that means family reunion or alumni weekend, what you wear is a great way to communicate. Maybe you’re the hot gay aunt. The cool gay sibling. Maybe you were drunk for most of college and have come back to show how much you’ve grown.

danijanae July 17, 2022 4 Comments
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TV Feature

There Will Never Be Another Wishbone

The best episodes of Wishbone impressed on me the importance of storytelling and listening to other people’s stories.

Stef Rubino July 16, 2022 41 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #101: Effortlessly High Expectations

How do you balance effort and expectations? You gotta meet yourself half way… or not.

Yao Xiao July 16, 2022 3 Comments
P-Valley 206 Recap: Mercedes and Farrah share an intimate moment in bed, smiling.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Each New Episode of “P-Valley” Is a Chef’s Kiss, Bon Appétit

On P-Valley, Mercedes once again has had the rug yanked out from under her by someone who professed to care. Plus updates from All Rise, The Chi, Roswell, New Mexico and For All Mankind.

Natalie and Valerie Anne
July 15, 2022 3 Comments
Good Trouble 411 Recap: Alice and Sumi read a text.
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 411 Recap: The Year of Yes

Am I a little sad that Alice didn’t use this opportunity to find out more about Sumi’s feelings and what sparked their initial break-up? Yes, but the biggest impediment between Alice and Sumi has always been the lack of trust. This is how you build it back up.

Natalie July 15, 2022 2 Comments
Society + Culture

Obsessed: The Stayner Family’s Real American Horror Story

Hulu’s “Captive Audience” is one of the most intense crime stories I’ve ever heard, and it starts with the kidnapping of a seven-year-old boy and ends with a serial killer in Yosemite park.

Riese July 15, 2022 16 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

So You Want To Go To The Beach

This is a packing list for VACATIONS. The ones where you aren’t really doing anything, just reading a ton of romance novels between dips in the ocean and playing board games while drinking wine at night.

Christina Tucker July 15, 2022 6 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Racing Rainbow Road

“MAKE TRANS ICON BIRDO A MAIN PLAYABLE CHARACTER IN MARIO CART, YOU COWARDS!”

Darcy July 15, 2022 4 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

Chris Belcher’s “Pretty Baby” Examines the Power of Shame in Our Culture

You don’t have to look very closely to see that shame is one of the foremost organizing principles of our society.

Stef Rubino July 15, 2022 1 Comment
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #64: BREAKING UP

Breaking up with a queer anti-choice friend, your partner isn’t over their ex, and more!

the team July 15, 2022 1 Comment
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First Person

Three Sober Queers on Their First Drinks and Workplace Drinking Culture

“It’s funny, much like coming out, I always look back on these moments and think ‘Ah that’s when I should have known I had a problem’.”

Tracy Levesque, danijanae and Analyssa
July 15, 2022 7 Comments
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