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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #47: How Do You Taper a Crush?

The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!

the team November 5, 2021 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Twenties” Episode 204 Recap: Tall Femme, Short Stud Date Night

It’s honest. It’s as honest a conversation between two queer Black women as I’ve ever seen on television. No white gaze to filter. No straightness to wade through.

Carmen Phillips November 4, 2021 16 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 304 Recap: Stayin’ Alive

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“Supergirl” Episode 618 Recap: “Dance, Dance, Revolution”

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Foolish Child #107: Invasive Thoughts

“I… didn’t order that.”

Dickens November 3, 2021 6 Comments
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