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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Imagine Someone Looking at You Like Leisha Hailey Is Looking at This Dog

Also not to be missed: Hayley Kiyoko with some incredible mermaid hair, some Betts content that’s going to make you feel VERY single, and Kiersey Clemons with a tall drink of water.

Christina Tucker July 14, 2021 7 Comments
Amity with newly purple hair kisses Luz, with her eyes closed, on the cheek
TV Feature

Amity Smooches Luz as “The Owl House” Breaks More Disney Ground

OH MY MAGICAL BABY KITTENS, YOU’RE EACH OTHER’S FIRST GAY CRUSH.  

Heather Hogan July 13, 2021 11 Comments
A dramatically lit photo of a cup of coffee in a mug that reads "I woke up like this #tired" nestled into rumpled bedsheets along with an open hardcover book.
First Person

Here’s What I Learned By Choosing to Step Away from Productivity For a Whole Day

I did nothing “productive” for a whole day: no email, no phone calls, no work, no cleaning, nothing that fuels my inherent Capricorn desire to win at Capitalism. Here’s what happened.

KaeLyn July 13, 2021 12 Comments
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Dating

You Need Help: How Do I Find Nerdy Women to Date?

Queer people so often have to reimagine and carve out our own spaces, rejecting the dominant narratives hurled at us.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 13, 2021 20 Comments
Shane, Alice, and Bette perform karaoke on stage during season two of The L Word: Generation Q
The L Word: Generation Q

The L Word: Generation Q: What Every Character Would Sing at Queer Karaoke Night

At the end of the evening, Finley definitely takes the stage one last time to sing “Closing Time.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 13, 2021 9 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Finally, Emmy Noms for Mj Rodriguez and POSE in Our Lifetimes

“It’s astounding, and it’s not just for me. I’m winning for so many people out there, so many babies out there, the generation that comes after me — that’s who it’s for, it’s not for me.”

Natalie July 13, 2021 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Stephanie Beatriz Is a Non-Magical Disney Heroine In the Enchanted “Encanto”

Benedetta is lesbian nun camp melodrama, Ryan Murphy’s Pray Away is fucking harrowing, people are still watching the heck out of Legend of Korra, and more!

Heather Hogan July 12, 2021 6 Comments
Legends of Tomorrow Episode 609: Avalance, Sara and Ava, at a birthday party looking surprised and holding a baby alien
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 609: Laugh Tracks

Sara and Ava lead the team on a sitcom-themed adventure to prove that representation matters by way of saving Behrad’s favorite show.

Valerie Anne July 12, 2021 3 Comments
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AF+ House & Garden

Submit Your Questions! Into the A+ Advice Box: Spaces & Places

A+ Members! Have a space you want to fix up, but aren’t sure how? Fighting over space with someone else? Struggling to find the kind of space you’ve always dreamed of? Let us help you!

meg July 12, 2021 1 Comment
Fear Street's gay characters look alarmed in the foreground as a late 70s summer camp looms in the background
Movie Reviews

“Fear Street: 1978” Plays it Too Straight for a Queer Slasher

Fear Street Part Two riffs on the original Friday The 13th movie with its summer camp setting, and we trade in the 90s nostalgia of the first Fear Street for late-70s nostalgia.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 12, 2021 12 Comments
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Gender

Myths About Testosterone and Fertility, Told Through Three Perspectives

Many who have taken testosterone have become pregnant and birthed babies, and there is no evidence that testosterone impacts fertility long-term. But the myths about testosterone continue swirling.

Will Betke-Brunswick July 12, 2021 16 Comments
Photos representing eight of the possible answers from the quiz: Jane the Virgin, Bend It Like Beckham, Pose, The 100, True Blood, Queer as Folk, Lost Girl
Quizzes

Quiz: Which LGBT TV Trope Are You?

Would you prefer to Hide Your Lesbians or to Bury Your Gays? This quiz will let you know where you’d end up in the wonderful world of Lesbian and Bisexual TV Tropes.

Riese July 11, 2021 47 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Super Into PDA Now

It’s time to make out. Plus, gender-neutral sex tech, just break up if you want to break up, how to talk dirty and more.

Ryan Yates July 11, 2021 5 Comments
Nurse tells patient to apply T every day to your upper arms, “basically the parts that are covered by t-shirt sleeves.” And the patient replays, “Okay! Easy! Can Do!” With a thumbs up
Webcomics

Reine #23: T Shirts

No sleeves are safe from my scissors.

Ren Strapp July 10, 2021 4 Comments
AJ & Alexis stare at each other with swoony eyes after an office hookup
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “The Republic of Sarah” Chooses Lesbian Lust Over Love for the Lord

Plus! Valerie Anne is trash for Motherland: Fort Salem, Drew loves a queer Valentine’s Day Dance, and Natalie is so hype on Leverage getting queer this year! And! Betty, In the Dark, the return of grown-ish, and All American’s backdoor pilot with a non-binary character.

The TV Team July 9, 2021 5 Comments
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AF+ Lesbian Sex

Here’s Your Full Video Workshop Breaking Down Everything You Need to Know for Strap-On Sex

The latest in Queer Sex 101, our series of real live queer people teaching you everything you need to know about real queer sex continues, with a one-hour workshop from sex educator, Autostraddle writer, SLICK editor and More, Please! editor Ro White on strap-on sex.

Rachel July 9, 2021 7 Comments
One Last Stop review: The cover of One Last Stop: A queer Asian woman in ripped jeans, a white t-shirt, a leather jacket, and red sneakers stands on the Q train. A white bisexual woman with red hair, carrying a cup of coffee, wearing black boots and a black jumper-dress walks by and notices the woman in the train. The cover says "One Last Stop."
LGBT Book Reviews

Casey McQuiston’s “One Last Stop” Is an Unmissable Queer Rom-Com Full of Hope, Humor, and Heart

In Casey McQuiston’s One Last Stop, Jane and August fall in love in the all-consuming, omniscient, dramatic, lifelong lusty way only queers and fan fiction characters do.

Heather Hogan July 9, 2021 11 Comments
pic of the book "What Fresh Hell is This"
LGBT Book Reviews

Heather Corinna Makes Menopause Accessible, Hilarious, and Queer AF in “What Fresh Hell Is This?”

Come for the Victorian menopause psychoanalysis mad lib; stay for the ode to cooling pillows. Heather Corinna has gifted us the queer and trans-inclusive book about menopause you didn’t know you desperately need to read, with delightful illustrations by Archie Bongiovanni!

KaeLyn July 9, 2021 15 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Strapping On Their Toolbelt

“I asked my partner what they’d do if I showed up like ‘I heard you had something that needs hammering’ and they acted like they didn’t hear me.”

Darcy July 9, 2021 15 Comments
In a still from Legally Blonde, Vivian and Elle are sitting together while working on their laptops.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Legally Blonde Came THIS CLOSE to Having a Gay Ending, What like It’s Hard?

Elite sports are failing Black women, readings on Sue Bird and Lil Nas X, the anxiety of girl tripping this summer, and Let Elle Woods Be Gay You Cowards!

Carmen Phillips July 8, 2021 10 Comments
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