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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: These “NCIS: Hawai’i” Queers Are Too Adorable to Function

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Natalie October 7, 2022 14 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

“The Family Outing” Is a Vivid Memoir of Neglect, Secrets, and the Power of Family

Over the course of five years, Jessi Hempel came out as a lesbian; her dad then came out as gay, her sister as bisexual, and her brother as trans.

Darcy October 7, 2022 4 Comments
A young woman stares at a computer screen, smirking.
First Person

I Rediscovered Fanfiction This Year and It Reconnected Me to My Inner Teen

The best version of myself wasn’t achieved through reinvention. It was achieved through acceptance.

Lily Alvarado October 7, 2022 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are As Gay As Velma

“Great day for all of us whose first foray into cosplay was wearing an atrocious tangerine turtleneck for half of second grade and saying jinkies a lot!”

Darcy October 7, 2022 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

How Many Times Does Shay Mitchell Have to Say She’s Bisexual???

She said she’s not straight in Cosmo, she said it in Maxim, she said it on YouTube, now she’s said it on TikTok. Wouldn’t it be cool if we just… believed her?

Heather Hogan October 7, 2022 21 Comments
The feature for Into the A+ Advice Box shows a stock photo of a woman in the foreground on her cellphone with a blurry mysterious figure of a man stalking her from behind. They are both Asian humans.
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?

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the team October 7, 2022 12 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Clare Gets a Wee Lesbian Love Story in Derry Girls’ Final Season

“Just me. Just the one lesbian. The rest of them are straight.”

Heather Hogan October 7, 2022 9 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Cherelle Griner Pleads for Brittney, “I Don’t Know if She Has Anything Left in Her Tank”

A visual history of WNBA kicks, the history of Black mermaids, and let’s look at some of the details of Biden’s marijuana pardon.

Carmen Phillips October 6, 2022 4 Comments
Michaela Cole as Aneka in Black Panther: Wakanda Forever, she looks to the right of camera and her hair is shaved bald. She is wearing big gold earrings and has detailed eye makeup.
Movie News & Trailers

Michaela Coel Joined “Black Panther: Wakanda Forever” Specifically to Play a Lesbian

For so many of us, queerness is not about who we lay with at night — it’s about who we are when we wake up in the morning.

Carmen Phillips October 6, 2022 3 Comments
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First Person

Confessions of a Ghost

Instead of disappearing from my emotional responsibility, I’ve decided to embrace the full transparency of a ghost.

Em Win October 6, 2022 1 Comment
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Book Features

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya on Writing a Lesbian Horror Protagonist Who Has Been to Therapy

Autostraddle Managing Editor Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya’s debut book — Helen House, a queer horror novelette — comes out October 18.

Nico October 6, 2022 5 Comments
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Movie Features

Slow Takes: The Year of Queer Indie Musicians Creating in Solitude and Losing Their Minds

Horror has always been the most democratized genre.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 6, 2022 2 Comments
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AF+

Anonymous Job Confession: My Boss Was an Egotistical, Predatory Dictator

“Cee showed me an audio recording she secretly took when she was alone with him.”

Guest October 6, 2022 1 Comment
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Sex

The Gay B C’s of Sex: T Is for Tribbing

Rubbing your bits against another hot bod is both physically and visually pleasurable, no matter what you call it.

Ro White October 6, 2022 8 Comments
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Literature

Rainbow Reading: We Fell in Love (With Some Rad New Books) in October

When someone declared on Twitter “october is an inherently gay month” — they were right.

Yashwina October 6, 2022 2 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Diane Guerrero Is Exploring Her Sexuality, Possibility of Queer Communal Living

It’s more than a soft launch coming out in a magazine profile. Any day that another queer polyam Latina is walking around among us is a bit brighter than the day before.

Carmen Phillips October 5, 2022 6 Comments
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Queer Fashion

Lizzo’s Yitty Set Changed My Life, It’s Worth an Internet Fight to the Death

Yitty has helped me spend less time looking in the mirror and more time doing what I actually want to do, which is be hot and gay in public.

Em Win October 5, 2022 4 Comments
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Nico October 5, 2022 18 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Hayley Kiyoko Made Velma Gay With the Power of Her Own Lesbianism

Lesbians on Andor, how Derry Girls managed a happy ending, Emma Corrin in Lady Chatterley’s Lover, and more!

Heather Hogan October 5, 2022 1 Comment
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Queen Latifah Profiling Keke Palmer for the Time 100 List? Uh, Yes Please!

Plus, these Megan Fox IG captions whip.

Christina Tucker October 5, 2022 3 Comments
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