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Friendship

You Need Help: Your Friend’s a Tool But Your Other Friend’s Ex Isn’t, Also: Jealousy

Your straight friend is predictable, jealousy is a bitch and there’s this girl you’re seeing who used to be seeing this other girl who happens to be a friend of yours. Let’s process!

Laneia December 21, 2011 22 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: So She’s Never Had An Orgasm

In which we discuss sleeping with a girl who’s never had an orgasm before.

Rachel December 19, 2011 38 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Both Hot and Empowered

“Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.”

Guest December 18, 2011 31 Comments
Sex

Much Ado About Having Sex With Lesbians

This Just In: I’m a Lesbian Pillow Princess, I Married a Lesbian and “My First Time”!

Riese December 13, 2011 54 Comments
Sex Toys Shopping

Holigay Gift Guide: Sexy Sexalicious Sexathonical Edition

In which we provide a list of sex-related gifts and would like to know if you’ve ever given or received one yourself and if you liked it, etc.

Riese December 11, 2011 18 Comments
Sex

The Language of Getting You Laid

Want to check the mimicry between you and your romantic interest? There’s an app for that.

Brittani December 8, 2011 30 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Thinks You’d Look Good Out of Those Pants

This week on NSFW Sunday: public nudity, liking whatever porn you want, and songs that sound like lesbian sex.

Guest December 4, 2011 34 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Just a Sweet Lesbian Love Story in “Vows” You’ll Probably Like

Riese’s Team Pick: Gail Marquis & Audrey Smaltz, partners of 12 years, earn The NY Times’ coveted “VOWS” placement this Sunday and their story is extra-adorbs.

Riese November 28, 2011 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Gets Inside Your Head

This week on NSFW Sunday: your brain on orgasms, the best places to have sex in public, and how to explain what lesbians do in bed to your cab driver.

Guest November 20, 2011 10 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: I Feel Like We Would Like You If We Met You

You think you can’t talk to that girl because she’s flawless and you’re you, but that’s bullshit! With special guest: The Great Equalizer.

Laneia November 10, 2011 50 Comments
Love + Sex

Today’s NY Mag Sex Diary is “Epic,” Queer, In An Open Relationship

Team Pick: New York Magazine Sex Diaries are queer sometimes.

Riese November 8, 2011 19 Comments
NSFW Sunday

Lesbosexy Art Attacks NSFW Sunday

This is an art attack. This is an art attack. This is NSFW Sunday Lesbosexy Art Attack!

Ryan Yates November 6, 2011 25 Comments
Sex

Sleeping Around #1: “Why I’m So Easy”

“Sleeping Around: a new column documenting my sexual conquests, emotional bitch-slaps, carnal fumbles, and relationship follies.”

Cosette October 30, 2011 136 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Knows All The Things About Getting Your Freak On

This week on NSFW Sunday: getting off with butch tops, knowing about your vagina, and the TSA.

Guest October 30, 2011 14 Comments
Love + Sex

10 Black Women Teaching Us About Sex

Brittani’s Team Pick: “Desire is natural, but navigating the contemporary world of sex is an acquired skill.”

Brittani October 25, 2011 13 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Paying Lip Service To Getting Off

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: pin-up lesbians and typography, age, and excerpts from an interview with the author of Big Big Love.

Guest October 23, 2011 16 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Sex Meets Feelings, Has Feelings About It

For when you ‘like her’ like her.

Laneia October 21, 2011 19 Comments
Love + Sex

60 Percent of Hetero Women Are Attracted to Other Women, Duh

Yup it’s true, straight girls wanna make out with you.

Riese October 20, 2011 143 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Gets Fired Up About Redheads and Numbers

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: a giant gallery of girls with red hair, sex stats, ignoring sex stats, and strap-on tutorial videos.

Guest October 16, 2011 65 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Supports International Fisting Day

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday wants to tell you about fisting, ridiculous sex products, Hope Solo naked and so forth.

Guest October 9, 2011 18 Comments
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