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Friendship

You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Say

In which we discuss if and when you need to tell a partner about your eating disorder.

Rachel July 5, 2012 14 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Doing It In The Road

This week on NSFW Sunday: dating yourself, couch surfing, and tastes and sex. I know, sex! Crazy.

Guest July 1, 2012 25 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday Didn’t Know You Could Jump So High

This week you’re helping out with a variety of mom-related issues, girlfriend feelings, touchy feely straight girls, coming out as trans* and a possible stone butch, among other things. Maybe our best FS Friday ever.

Laneia June 29, 2012 67 Comments
Issues Sex

Listling Without Commentary: Things Women Said About Lesbianism In The 1976 Hite Report on Female Sexuality

“Sex with a woman for me has involved pressing mound of Venus against mound of Venus on each other’s leg.”

Riese June 26, 2012 87 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Possible Pube Panic, Taking It Slow, and Parents Just Don’t Understand

Your parents don’t know what to say, your girlfriend wants to take things slow, and also you’re a virgin who can probably drive.

Laneia June 26, 2012 53 Comments
Sex

Queer Porn’s Nikki Hearts Is Living Her Dream: The Autostraddle Interview

Nikki Hearts loves Mötley Crüe, her girlfriend, and taco trucks. Also, she’s really cute and makes porn!

Mila June 24, 2012 19 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Hot Out There In The Garden

This week on NSFW Sunday: ridiculous sex tips, BDSM myths, and a reminder that your vagina is awesome.

Guest June 24, 2012 20 Comments
Sex

NY Mag’s Queer Poly Lady Sex Diarist Has A Lot Of Actual Sex, Goes There

“I keep asking her for more, more, more, until her fist is 98 percent inside of me. I’m not happy with myself for not being able to take the last 2 percent.”

Riese June 18, 2012 24 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants More, More, More, And Maybe Also More

This week on NSFW Sunday: the history of sexual repression, really expensive vibrators, hot sex when it’s hot out, and hands.

Guest June 17, 2012 8 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Gallery: 50 Adorable Lesbian Couples Having Adorable Lesbian Weddings

I don’t even have a news peg for this.

Ryan Yates June 15, 2012 91 Comments
Dating

5 Tips On Dating a Girl Who Is Only Kinda Sorta Maybe Out To Her Family And Friends

“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”

Tully June 11, 2012 58 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants to Taste the Rainbow in Your Pants

This week on NSFW Sunday: couples with roommates, feminist porn, bike smut, and tasting the rainbow in your pants.

Guest June 10, 2012 12 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Coming Early

This week on NSFW Sunday: films about sex, articles about sex, lube, orgasms, and a Lip Service sex scene.

Guest June 3, 2012 18 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Skipping the News and Going Right for the Erotica

This week on NSFW Sunday: a little queer news and a lot of queer sex.

Guest May 27, 2012 30 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday is Smart and Sexy, In That Order

This week on NSFW Sunday: sexual history, Dita Von Tesse, and non-monogamy.

Guest May 20, 2012 10 Comments
Breakups

The Ten Greatest Things My (Ex)Girlfriend Ever Said to Me

“5. I’m kind of glad you still have that scar from when my dog bit you.”

Elizabeth Victoria Aldrich May 18, 2012 40 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: You Like Her But She Keeps Bringing Up Boys

Your focus shouldn’t be ‘Is she straight or gay?’. Wondering about that leads to madness, drunk phone calls and other forms of hot messery.

gabby May 15, 2012 44 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down in History

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: historical gayness, porn, and non-monogamy.

Guest May 13, 2012 59 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants to Show and Tell

Topics include beautiful labias, posing nude while feminist, handling bad sex, naked celebrities, a ‘zine about sex with trans women and so much more!

Riese May 6, 2012 51 Comments
Love + Sex

Shit White Parents Have Said to Me

“Minority youths are really just more violent than white ones. Seriously, you can’t argue with the news.”

gabby April 30, 2012 181 Comments
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